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[Vonc2002]

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[AIDS]

I really don't even like to tell friends goodbye. When I say it it gives me a weird feeling. You truly never know the last time you'll talk to someone.

My granny always tells us to say "so long" or "see you later" instead of goodbye

[Real]

Granny

[Rxxf]

I really don't even like to tell friends goodbye. When I say it it gives me a weird feeling. You truly never know the last time you'll talk to someone.

Thank you for saying this.  Even tho it may be difficult.
It really helps.
You are helping others.
Love you.

[AIDS]

Queen will be 96 (great grandmother)

[AIDS]

Granny

[Nine]

Wow, I didn't know that.

Kelly

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

I really don't even like to tell friends goodbye. When I say it it gives me a weird feeling. You truly never know the last time you'll talk to someone.

Thank you for saying this.  Even tho it may be difficult.
It really helps.
You are helping others.
Love you.

Love you too

Can i have a hug?

[M-Rocka]

I had a similar situation like Kelly's. Prior to my mom's passing, we had an argument basically about how she was ready to go on home with the Lord because she was tired of battling with her breast cancer. There was a lot of guilt coming from her and resentment that she felt that I had towards her growing up. I can tell that she wasn't going to be the same after my dad died a year prior to her passing.

Life is so crazy. About 4 years ago my dad and my step mom were hit head on by a drunk driver, my step mom died on impact but my dad survived. We never really had a strong bond because to be honest he was an absentee father. He has had a lot of health problems since and I feel like a higher power is urging me to deal with my issues before it is too late. We are closer but it feels fake. He tells me he loves me and it may be genuine on his part but I feel like he is just trying to make himself feel better. Should anything happen to him, that would probably be a struggle for me.

I'm very sorry to hear about your step mom, I hope that drunk driver was charged, piece of shit. But anywho, I think you should continue on building that relationship with your dad now. I cannot stress that enough. I tell that to my cousin all the time because his relationship with my uncle is damaged.

Honestly my step moms passing wasn't painful for me. It is a long story but the short of it is that my stepmom had a hand in busting up my Mom and Dad's marriage...oh and she was my cousin too but I digress. Yea the driver was charged and is in prison. You're right, I am just going to continue building with my dad. I will admit that it's much better than acting as if he doesn't exist.

Wow I really wasn't expecting to read that, but yeah continue building that bond with him. I wish I still have both of them here with me, but everyday gets easier. Something that you will never get over.

She was a mess, I didn't use at all. Lord forgive me. You're completely right. My Aunt and her sons have been on a downward spiral ever since my uncle passed.

You have been through it, chile. Well the good thing about all of this is that you didn't let it hinder you at all. Most people can't say that.

That is very true. I can't imagine going what you have gone through, definitely speaks volumes about how you have made it through.

Its crazy for real. I honestly thought I was never going to pull through it though. I have to catch myself sometimes when I want to pick up the phone and call them. I came home from the gym one night on the anniversary of my mom's death and saw a picture on the computer of my parents and my grandmother and immediately just lost it. I heard my dad's voice telling me to pull it together lol.

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[BigDawg]

I had a similar situation like Kelly's. Prior to my mom's passing, we had an argument basically about how she was ready to go on home with the Lord because she was tired of battling with her breast cancer. There was a lot of guilt coming from her and resentment that she felt that I had towards her growing up. I can tell that she wasn't going to be the same after my dad died a year prior to her passing.

Life is so crazy. About 4 years ago my dad and my step mom were hit head on by a drunk driver, my step mom died on impact but my dad survived. We never really had a strong bond because to be honest he was an absentee father. He has had a lot of health problems since and I feel like a higher power is urging me to deal with my issues before it is too late. We are closer but it feels fake. He tells me he loves me and it may be genuine on his part but I feel like he is just trying to make himself feel better. Should anything happen to him, that would probably be a struggle for me.

I'm very sorry to hear about your step mom, I hope that drunk driver was charged, piece of shit. But anywho, I think you should continue on building that relationship with your dad now. I cannot stress that enough. I tell that to my cousin all the time because his relationship with my uncle is damaged.

Honestly my step moms passing wasn't painful for me. It is a long story but the short of it is that my stepmom had a hand in busting up my Mom and Dad's marriage...oh and she was my cousin too but I digress. Yea the driver was charged and is in prison. You're right, I am just going to continue building with my dad. I will admit that it's much better than acting as if he doesn't exist.

Wow I really wasn't expecting to read that, but yeah continue building that bond with him. I wish I still have both of them here with me, but everyday gets easier. Something that you will never get over.

She was a mess, I didn't use at all. Lord forgive me. You're completely right. My Aunt and her sons have been on a downward spiral ever since my uncle passed.

You have been through it, chile. Well the good thing about all of this is that you didn't let it hinder you at all. Most people can't say that.

That is very true. I can't imagine going what you have gone through, definitely speaks volumes about how you have made it through.

Its crazy for real. I honestly thought I was never going to pull through it though. I have to catch myself sometimes when I want to pick up the phone and call them. I came home from the gym one night on the anniversary of my mom's death and saw a picture on the computer of my parents and my grandmother and immediately just lost it. I heard my dad's voice telling me to pull it together lol.

I can't even imagine, that is pure strength. My mom is my lifeline and losing her will be a test of everything for me. When she battled breast cancer I tried to prepare myself but it was hard because during her chemo her brother in law and father passed away and it just played in my head on repeat.

[M-Rocka]

I had a similar situation like Kelly's. Prior to my mom's passing, we had an argument basically about how she was ready to go on home with the Lord because she was tired of battling with her breast cancer. There was a lot of guilt coming from her and resentment that she felt that I had towards her growing up. I can tell that she wasn't going to be the same after my dad died a year prior to her passing.

Life is so crazy. About 4 years ago my dad and my step mom were hit head on by a drunk driver, my step mom died on impact but my dad survived. We never really had a strong bond because to be honest he was an absentee father. He has had a lot of health problems since and I feel like a higher power is urging me to deal with my issues before it is too late. We are closer but it feels fake. He tells me he loves me and it may be genuine on his part but I feel like he is just trying to make himself feel better. Should anything happen to him, that would probably be a struggle for me.

I'm very sorry to hear about your step mom, I hope that drunk driver was charged, piece of shit. But anywho, I think you should continue on building that relationship with your dad now. I cannot stress that enough. I tell that to my cousin all the time because his relationship with my uncle is damaged.

Honestly my step moms passing wasn't painful for me. It is a long story but the short of it is that my stepmom had a hand in busting up my Mom and Dad's marriage...oh and she was my cousin too but I digress. Yea the driver was charged and is in prison. You're right, I am just going to continue building with my dad. I will admit that it's much better than acting as if he doesn't exist.

Wow I really wasn't expecting to read that, but yeah continue building that bond with him. I wish I still have both of them here with me, but everyday gets easier. Something that you will never get over.

She was a mess, I didn't use at all. Lord forgive me. You're completely right. My Aunt and her sons have been on a downward spiral ever since my uncle passed.

You have been through it, chile. Well the good thing about all of this is that you didn't let it hinder you at all. Most people can't say that.

That is very true. I can't imagine going what you have gone through, definitely speaks volumes about how you have made it through.

Its crazy for real. I honestly thought I was never going to pull through it though. I have to catch myself sometimes when I want to pick up the phone and call them. I came home from the gym one night on the anniversary of my mom's death and saw a picture on the computer of my parents and my grandmother and immediately just lost it. I heard my dad's voice telling me to pull it together lol.

I can't even imagine, that is pure strength. My mom is my lifeline and losing her will be a test of everything for me. When she battled breast cancer I tried to prepare myself but it was hard because during her chemo her brother in law and father passed away and it just played in my head on repeat.

It's a lot of us here that have dealt with this and its crazy how we all are bonding over this, but I can definitely understand where you are coming from. I'm sorry to hear about your other family members.

[LOONA.]

Id get over my dad dying tbh

Aw, Vonc.
Sorry that your dad hasn't made a great impression with you.

its fine
I don't dislike him we just aint extremely close and i just know id be ok.  I guess it's "shocking" to be that honest but that's the truth.  I wouldnt be heartbroken or anything

I know what you mean. I'm like that with alot of my family too but I'm not a very emotional person to begin with.