Why do I even bother?

Started by Blackpantha, October 18, 2017, 04:49:27 PM

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b7

Quote from: Blackpantha on October 18, 2017, 09:16:32 PM
Quote from: Nine on October 18, 2017, 05:09:36 PM
Pay him dust. Then laugh at him when he comes crawling back after they break up.

Me and the boyfriend became friends on "Grindr" a couple days ago. He said they are having issues.
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What

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b7

Quote from: Blackpantha on October 18, 2017, 09:19:05 PM
Quote from: Fall 2017 on October 18, 2017, 05:11:11 PM
You said you were away for 2 1/2 years. It sounds like your friend has adjusted to life without you being a huge part of it. Unfortunately that's what can happen when friends are apart for a long time - especially if you guys did EVERYTHING together.

Don't take it too harshly and remember that he's not obligated to hang out with you, etc. if he doesn't feel like it. I have been best friends with my bestie since we were 15 but I have an understanding that her partner and child are first in her life. That's like her immediate family. I'm a friend. A very good friend but a friend.

She never makes me "feel" as if I am secondary but I just always have that understanding in the back of my mind. Right now it sounds like you "feel" as if you're secondary and being pushed to the side. And it's OK to feel that way. Just focus on making new friends if your old ones seem too busy for you.

Your friend has a man now. This scenario isn't uncommon at all.

That's understandable. But I want my friend back
yea ur too attached :dead: didn?t read a word Afro said :kii:

?Mhmm yea, ok... still want my friend to be mine lmao! ?

b7

Quote from: Blackpantha on October 18, 2017, 09:21:53 PM
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on October 18, 2017, 05:32:31 PM
Most important thing first,
Have yawl always just friends, any extra feelings going on?



Depending on the answer it?s got to be a two way street. It?s different with gays and friends. Because friends are seen as potential interests that hold a special place in their man?s heart.

You should listen to his apology and just have a long sit down to discuss expectations and boundaries.

Just friends... Well we fucked a couple times. And did threesomes and what not
girl

b7

Quote from: L0NZ. on October 18, 2017, 09:51:37 PM
I think you have "other" types of feelings and still want to fuck him. Regular besties dont fuck a couple times sorry. Then wanna be all up in their mix "we can do our bestie date night stuff and oh! your boyfriend can tag along too! no prob! hehe" like what the world.
im over here crying I kid you damn not

b7

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 18, 2017, 09:55:07 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on October 18, 2017, 09:51:37 PM
I think you have "other" types of feelings and still want to fuck him. Regular besties dont fuck a couple times sorry. Then wanna be all up in their mix "we can do our bestie date night stuff and oh! your boyfriend can tag along too! no prob! hehe" like what the world.

AND then becoming friends with the new bae on Grindr

:udontlookok:
bitch  :kii:

This sealed the deal for me

wizzy

Quote from: Blackpantha on October 18, 2017, 09:16:32 PM
Quote from: Nine on October 18, 2017, 05:09:36 PM
Pay him dust. Then laugh at him when he comes crawling back after they break up.

Me and the boyfriend became friends on "Grindr" a couple days ago. He said they are having issues.
:dead:
to think i felt bad for ur sitch when i first tipped in

Eternal Bell

Quote from: 1RIG on October 19, 2017, 03:52:04 AM
Quote from: Blackpantha on October 18, 2017, 09:16:32 PM
Quote from: Nine on October 18, 2017, 05:09:36 PM
Pay him dust. Then laugh at him when he comes crawling back after they break up.

Me and the boyfriend became friends on "Grindr" a couple days ago. He said they are having issues.
n

What

:mmyulost:
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Opposites Attract.

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Now even this is low for my Thot ass. I would absolutely never.


It's unconditional, these days you know....


KING BENTLEY.


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