Am I overreacting?

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Quote from: MrMoon on March 06, 2018, 08:20:21 AM
We met each other in 2015.

It has always been a back and forth type of relationship.
We used to plan some dates then I cancelled it last minute... He also did the same thing.
Nothing really deep but we have these long breaks when we do not talk for 1 month, then we reconnect, flirt on Snap and shit.

He is not the drop DEAD gorgeous guy but I can tell there is something between us.
He used to be in LOVE whereas I was not.
But we keep joking about the fact we will end up together...

WELL...

He keeps saying that all I got is mouth, that I do nothing but TALK (and fuck).
He wants to spend more time with me, share things with me, be in my life on a daily basis...
He keeps REPEATING it and it fucking gets on my nerve.

Like 'Okay, I'm a player, I'm always playing, I got a LIST of hoes blah blah blah' I got it
But AT LEAST I'm not trying to be in a relationship with you AND I end up cheating and stuff... BUT WELL... All I got is MOUTH.

Anyway,

I posted a Snap saying I still have not seen Black Panthers cause I'm super busy with work.
He asked to go the theaters with me so I said ok... Monday night 9.50PM.
Everything was planned.
Monday at 2PM, we texted each other, like "is it still okay for tonite?!" (y'all know we used to cancel last minute) He said yes, and wanted to pick me up and shit.
I said no.

Mind y'all this motherfucker was not responding to my text at 9.50PM.
I was like where the fuck u at?!
No answer... I waited for 20 minutes. His phone was turned off.

Bitch, I was like no he fucking did not... I did not ask FOR SHIT! You proposed and now you aint here?!

I was fucking pissed and went back home.

At midnight, this bitch sent me vids and texts explaining me he fell asleep at 6PM.
I dont wanna know ANYTHING.

I just deleted this bitch from Snap, Insta, Whatsapp, my phone.
Some friends told me I'm overreacting.

I'm very spiteful. I can't help it. I'm loyal as shit but once u crossed the motherfucking line.
BYE.

Fuck him btw.

NEXT.
I don't think your overreacting, especially if you know he wasn't sleep and deliberately turned his off. Seems like he likes to play mind games and if your up for that go ahead, if not cut it off and don't look back. I'm telling you, you will thank yourself later on down the line.

ya rock muh world.

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Quote from: Andrais. on March 06, 2018, 08:43:40 AM
BUT the fact that you even made this thread shows you actually care so idk.     
agreed

the dude got the reaction he wanted

Bor, given the history, maybe you should surprise him and take him to the movie another time

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Annie

You know this is a time where we can break patterns and let go of relationships that don?t serve us? (I?m following some astrology experts on insta)

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Annie

Quote from: Mary Jane on March 06, 2018, 09:53:20 AM
Sounds like y?all both wasting y?all time.
!!!

It is perfectly ok to just say enough is enough. Is this person giving you energy or draining? You need to chose what makes you happy.
Cancelling plans last minute is a sign you guys are not that excited about eachother anyways. If I really want to meet someone I will be there..might even be there ten minutes early

 /.\

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Quote from: Annie on March 06, 2018, 12:16:45 PM
Quote from: Mary Jane on March 06, 2018, 09:53:20 AM
Sounds like y?all both wasting y?all time.
!!!

It is perfectly ok to just say enough is enough. Is this person giving you energy or draining? You need to chose what makes you happy.
Cancelling plans last minute is a sign you guys are not that excited about eachother anyways. If I really want to meet someone I will be there..might even be there ten minutes early
exactly.
Ppl make time for what is important to them no matter what.

Cuban0

Quote from: Cartier on March 06, 2018, 08:27:55 AM
Lol he probably got mad because you refused to let him pick you up and he 'fell asleep'.

Honestly you guys are both at fault here; like you said, he wants more from you than you're willing to give and you (seem to) keep giving false him hope.

Boundaries need to be set tbh, if you decide to talk to him again. I couldn't do this whole push/pull thing.

Pretty much.

L0NZ.

Quote from: MrMoon on March 06, 2018, 08:21:16 AM
It's a bit long and my English is still acting funny.
So WARNING and grab yo fucking spectacles.


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March 06, 2018, 11:33:59 PM #54 Last Edit: March 06, 2018, 11:34:13 PM by ᚱʌ𐤋ϝ
You are overreacting.
It isn't about the movies.

It's about how you both communicate with each other.
And you should be meeting up to address that, not meeting up to go to the movies.

I miss you, Bor, btw.
BRANDY

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Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 08:57:14 AM
He seemed really excited to be with you so it's confusing to me that he'd miss an opportunity to actually spend time with you outside of the bedroom.

Would this have been the first time he did something with you besides sucking on your dick? :unsure: Or have you been on dates before?
same thing i was thinking sddd why would he even risk taking a nap that late into the evening

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Quote from: Paradiso. on March 06, 2018, 09:15:15 AM
Quote from: MrMoon on March 06, 2018, 09:13:56 AM
Quote from: Navy&Cream. on March 06, 2018, 09:12:26 AM
Quote from: hai class. on March 06, 2018, 09:07:31 AM
Quote from: Navy&Cream. on March 06, 2018, 09:02:20 AM
You need to mature a bit tbh
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I think the fact that he's actually taking time aside to question his reaction shows a bit of growth/maturity. Like, "Wait, was that fucking necessary?  :shannonsmissing: "




She?s always making these threads about being a ho and playing with these bottoms hearts like it?s a game or something and wonders why they act crazy.

Settle down with that horse dick.

You won't TRY me like that.
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Purple Moon

Either he did this on purpose to spark a reaction from you or he actually fell asleep - Either way it seems there are a lot of emotions involved from both sides. Are you sure you don?t want to try being in a relationship with him? It can be scary for you, but maybe it is what you?re secretly longing for.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...