Hope I’m never in this situation

Started by reekz, April 21, 2020, 12:39:05 PM

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reekz

Quote2 years ago, my ex boyfriend left me for my best friend. Just found out they're getting married
Sounds straight out of a movie I know. I was with my ex from 2010-2013. We were both 23 and met at a party. We hit it off right away and started dating.

I personally thought we had the 'perfect relationship' we never fought, we always knew exactly how to make each other happy and laugh, we had the same hobbies, we traveled in the summers, after a year of dating he started telling me I was the one. He was my first everything.

I also had a best friend since high school who I loved dearly. She was really the only other friend I had besides my boyfriend.

Her and I drifted apart the last 6-7 months of my relationship with the bf because she got a new job. We still spoke often and went out on weekends but I noticed she slowly started to back off and no longer wanted to hang out with my boyfriend and I.

Boyfriend started getting weird the last week of our relationship. He finally admitted that he's been "cheating emotionally" as he called it with my friend for about a month.

He gave me the old I love you but I'm not in love anymore line. He told me that he just had a special connection with her and that he's just drawn to her. I cried like a looney toon and was very heart broken, and he just kind of stood there without much emotion. I knew then he didn't love me anymore.

To make this short, they started dating about a month after we broke up (surprise). They've been dating off and on since. I lost my best friend and boyfriend in just a matter of minutes. Had a fight with the friend the day him and I broke up, never heard from her again. The boyfriend texted me about a week after we broke up to apologize for everything and that he no longer wants any contact with me, I didn't even reply. That was the last I heard from him also.

I found out a few hours ago from a mutual friend that they announced their engagement on Facebook. They are getting married in April. A bunch of our mutual friends will be attending the wedding. Many of our friends kind of picked their side over mine. I don't talk to hardly any of them anymore.

His family (I was really close to his mom and sister) totally shunned me out after the break up which is sad because they were family to me, we got along great.

So I sit here tonight quite hurt. Everything that happened with those 2 and what they did all just came back and hit me right in the face. I really loved them both. I wonder if they really ever cared about me. This whole situation makes me sick to my stomach. Advice is much appreciated.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/42p61n/2_years_ago_my_ex_boyfriend_left_me_for_my_best/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=post_body

This just hurts my spirit. This poor young woman.


Young

REALLY sad and horrible.

But you have to move on...


MelMel

Quote from: Young on April 21, 2020, 12:43:59 PM
REALLY sad and horrible.

But you have to move on...
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and fuck his best friend for fun  :ohwow:

reekz


Amazing

The best way to get over a man is to lay under another.

reekz