Quote from: ivorian oph on December 23, 2022, 12:04:00 AMQuote from: Black Israel on December 22, 2022, 11:22:19 PMQuote from: ivorian oph on December 22, 2022, 06:16:04 PMQuote from: RedOctober on December 22, 2022, 05:23:31 PMA lot of black women in the industry are silent on this matter. Yet, Candace Ownes for fucks sake has shown public support for Meg.
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her clear ulterior motive is to paint a black man in a bad light. like, duh
and the meg and chris brown cases or NOTHING a like for starters. secondly, meg actually has support. chris didn't, for obvious reasons. and the only reason the gors supported him was because they got tired of seeing him continually punished for something even the victim had forgiven him for. vvvccccccc imagine falling for a candice owens mess
forgiveness from the victim will not always relieve someone of being continually held accountable by others for their actions.
it should. if the penance that the perpetrator showed is enough to satisfy the victim then anyone else still fuming about it looks STUPID. i understand that you can be branded. but that doesn't negate my point. both are true.
but back to the point, meg & chris brown are two completely different situations
i've seen family members forgive someone who killed their child.
they're still a killer, unfortunately.
Rodney King forgave the officers who beat his ass on that highway.
and was actually seen as a "symbol of forgiveness"
ask the gorls in LA if they've forgiven those cops
and if they say no, tell them how "stupid" they are for "still fuming about it"
there's such a thing as unintended victims - in terms of things that deeply trigger people.
it's not easy for people to let things go sometimes. and i'd say it's understandable depending on severity
domestic violence is definitely up there.