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I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

From my observation I think she's ok with Toni's success because she actually likes & respects her. Also, being associated with Toni brings opportunities her way. She's always been generous to her sisters.

If you watch the earlier episodes of BFV, Towanda has been pissed at Tamar ever since their group fell apart. She blames her for it. After they split she went on to catch a check fraud case and marry a loser who didn't work. All while making ends meet as Toni's assistant.

Meanwhile Tamar married a rich husband with industry connections. She went on to live a more luxurious, work-free life (at the time). Laid out on yachts with Lady Gaga & shit. Tamar is also a somewhat of a celeb outside of Toni's shadow.

[Dee]

Fuck TaMUPPET

[JCJ]

I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

From my observation I think she's ok with Toni's success because she actually likes & respects her. Also, being associated with Toni brings opportunities her way. She's always been generous to her sisters.

If you watch the earlier episodes of BFV, Towanda has been pissed at Tamar ever since their group fell apart. She blames her for it. After they split she went on to catch a check fraud case and marry a loser who didn't work. All while making ends meet as Toni's assistant.

Meanwhile Tamar married a rich husband with industry connections. She went on to live a more luxurious, work-free life (at the time). Laid out on yachts with Lady Gaga & shit. Tamar is also a somewhat of a celeb outside of Toni's shadow.

Tamar was likely the reason why their group (aside from abysmal sales). I genuinely think she just doesn't like Tamar. I don't really get jealous...especially not now


I can't help but to feel like some people's reasoning (not yours) is rooted in colorism. "She's just jealous of Tamar cuz she lightskin and get all the attention."

I saw a tweet of somebody comparing Traci's fights with Tamar with Towanda's...saying that there was more love between Traci and Tamar or something idk

[Vonc2002]

I believe JR. Tamar is a weirdo

[Vonc2002]

And ive never believed that towanda is jealous narrative.  If anybody was jealous it was traci ol non singing never made it ass

[Vonc2002]

I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

From my observation I think she's ok with Toni's success because she actually likes & respects her. Also, being associated with Toni brings opportunities her way. She's always been generous to her sisters.

If you watch the earlier episodes of BFV, Towanda has been pissed at Tamar ever since their group fell apart. She blames her for it. After they split she went on to catch a check fraud case and marry a loser who didn't work. All while making ends meet as Toni's assistant.

Meanwhile Tamar married a rich husband with industry connections. She went on to live a more luxurious, work-free life (at the time). Laid out on yachts with Lady Gaga & shit. Tamar is also a somewhat of a celeb outside of Toni's shadow.

Tamar was likely the reason why their group (aside from abysmal sales). I genuinely think she just doesn't like Tamar. I don't really get jealous...especially not now

I've NEVER seen it.  I think Towanda just GENUINELY doesn't like Tamar 

[I. Hate. Monica.]

She's jealous and she hates her

[JCJ]

I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

From my observation I think she's ok with Toni's success because she actually likes & respects her. Also, being associated with Toni brings opportunities her way. She's always been generous to her sisters.

If you watch the earlier episodes of BFV, Towanda has been pissed at Tamar ever since their group fell apart. She blames her for it. After they split she went on to catch a check fraud case and marry a loser who didn't work. All while making ends meet as Toni's assistant.

Meanwhile Tamar married a rich husband with industry connections. She went on to live a more luxurious, work-free life (at the time). Laid out on yachts with Lady Gaga & shit. Tamar is also a somewhat of a celeb outside of Toni's shadow.

Tamar was likely the reason why their group (aside from abysmal sales). I genuinely think she just doesn't like Tamar. I don't really get jealous...especially not now

I've NEVER seen it.  I think Towanda just GENUINELY doesn't like Tamar 

I don't know why that seems to be so unfathomable to people jfjfffj

[stillpretty]

I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

From my observation I think she's ok with Toni's success because she actually likes & respects her. Also, being associated with Toni brings opportunities her way. She's always been generous to her sisters.

i agree

plus i always thought it was easier for Towanda and the others to "make sense" of Toni being the most successful cuz she's the oldest. in a sense, it's expected for her to be the most accomplished. to be the leader.

but it's a different ballgame when ur baby sis - the youngest of the family - appears to be ZOOMING past you in a couple of different categories.

tamar is annoying but ive def felt that towanda felt some type of way about her life.
at least a few years ago when everything was going really well for tamar

[stillpretty]

and i never felt like Traci wanted what the other sisters wanted - for the most part

she just wanted to sing with her sisters. do music together.

she didn't seem super pressed about living in the hollywood hills, or bling bling bling

or buying houses she couldnt afford, to stunt on the girls....only to get them foreclosed on (Towanda    )

Traci was actually very down to earth. it really seemed like she enjoyed living a simpler life with her husband and son back in Maryland.

[oph.]

I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

!!!

i watched bfv from day one AND starting iver with iyanla years before that. towanda NEVER gave me jealous. tamar is just INSUFFERABLE. thats it. thats the story.

[RAY7]

I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

From my observation I think she's ok with Toni's success because she actually likes & respects her. Also, being associated with Toni brings opportunities her way. She's always been generous to her sisters.

i agree

plus i always thought it was easier for Towanda and the others to "make sense" of Toni being the most successful cuz she's the oldest. in a sense, it's expected for her to be the most accomplished. to be the leader.

but it's a different ballgame when ur baby sis - the youngest of the family - appears to be ZOOMING past you in a couple of different categories.

tamar is annoying but ive def felt that towanda felt some type of way about her life.
at least a few years ago when everything was going really well for tamar

this!!
I think their parents raised them in a way that kind of led to this issue. Told them to ALWAYS stick together no matter what, and they took this to the extreme. It's like they feel entitled to each other's success. It's all good when Toni is the star because she's gonna bring the sisters with her as bgvs or even get them a deal to be a group. Towanda even was living with Toni at one point even with her kids.
But when Tamar blew up it wasn't the same. She's the baby and selfish and she was not letting them tag along with her.
Also at least Trina had a short lived career doing dance music, and Traci put out 2 albums before she passed. What has Towanda done? She's like the lowest on the totem pole success-wise. It probably eats her up that all the sisters surpassed her.

[stillpretty]

I can't stand social media takes sometimes fjfjfjfn you got people saying "towanda's the real villain!"


No she just put up with Tamar's mess the least (outside of Traci)

I've always felt like Towanda was jealous of Tamar. That's not to absolve Tamar's antics in any way, but 'Wanda isn't an angel either.

Arrested for check fraud self.

Why would she be jealous of Tamar but not Toni? Toni is pretty with a successful career. Tamar has neither of those.

From my observation I think she's ok with Toni's success because she actually likes & respects her. Also, being associated with Toni brings opportunities her way. She's always been generous to her sisters.

i agree

plus i always thought it was easier for Towanda and the others to "make sense" of Toni being the most successful cuz she's the oldest. in a sense, it's expected for her to be the most accomplished. to be the leader.

but it's a different ballgame when ur baby sis - the youngest of the family - appears to be ZOOMING past you in a couple of different categories.

tamar is annoying but ive def felt that towanda felt some type of way about her life.
at least a few years ago when everything was going really well for tamar

this!!
I think their parents raised them in a way that kind of led to this issue. Told them to ALWAYS stick together no matter what, and they took this to the extreme. It's like they feel entitled to each other's success. It's all good when Toni is the star because she's gonna bring the sisters with her as bgvs or even get them a deal to be a group. Towanda even was living with Toni at one point even with her kids.
But when Tamar blew up it wasn't the same. She's the baby and selfish and she was not letting them tag along with her.
Also at least Trina had a short lived career doing dance music, and Traci put out 2 albums before she passed. What has Towanda done? She's like the lowest on the totem pole success-wise. It probably eats her up that all the sisters surpassed her.

I don't think towanda really wanted to be a solo music star tho.

She coulda easily hit a studio and released music if she wanted

Being an actress was more her thing
It's what she constantly talked about

[Kalifornia.]

She's jealous and she hates her