i think tia has kinda been exposed as the more annoying twin
cuz when she was married to her hubby people were super fixated on the fact that Tamera is married to a White man instead of a Black man like Tia was
that was the entire conversation - like, the beginning and end of it.
"tia chose Black love! Tamera didn't!"
but now that she's divorced and we kinda get to focus on Tia as opposed to who she chose as a husband..... Tamera's actually more likable and centered IMO
but to be fair, it could be that Tia's in her "SINGLE LADY!!! WATCH MEH GO!" phase after divorce, which could possibly just be inherently annoying and have nothing to do with who she is as a person....as a lot of those recent behaviors/displays could easily be categorized as performative.
she's trying to figure out who she is just as Tia, after being married to a bum nigga for 20 years. and that's understandable.
but i always thought people were a lil too hard on Tamera
especially calling her a slave, etc.
at the most, her choice of husband is questionable but it's not like shes out here just being anti-Black and saying crazy harmful stuff to people