cccccx u trying to make this so much deeper than what it is
sam smith WAS successful until he STARTED the gimmick mess(a reverse nas, if you will) abd he kinda faded odd. you tip toeing around the REAL issue. gays are tired of being represented as this one-dimenisonal caricature of werk! yes! all about dick! when they take up these facades, they're catering to a SEGMENT of the gay population. and the novelty eventually wears off.
secondly, the gays dont OWE them anything JUST because theyre gay. especially if we think the representation is late, gimmicky, and again one-dimensional. and its extremely lazy and dismissive to simply lump that into this "self-loathing" angle. the gors dont use and they have their valid reasons. you may not LIKE it, but you certainly dont get to victimize him because of it.