HONESTY HOUR: Is cheating a deal breaker for you?

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BranLover

Quote from: Alphabet on December 04, 2016, 11:20:03 AM
Quote from: Scott. on December 03, 2016, 09:34:33 PM
I really don't know because my trust is shaky. I don't know if I can trust you the same.
Or even be attracted to them the same. After that I'm disgusted. Yeah, I think it's a one and done for me.

Yea I would be a bit disgusted. Definitely wouldn't give head to them ever again lol.

LOONA.

It depends on how far along we are in our relationship. If we've been dating 2 or 3 months I'll most likely drop your ass.

If it was something long term or we're possibly engaged/married I'd try to work things out.       


LOONA.

Quote from: TAE! on December 04, 2016, 11:18:57 AM
Not justifying cheating, but let's say the person who cheated felt like they were being taken for granted in the relationship and have expressed it, but the person who got cheated on hasn't made any changes. Would it be "ok" then? Or something you'd be willing to work through? Sometimes I feel both parties have to take responsibility.

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My friend neglected her husband and treated him like shit. He only stayed with her because they had a kid together.

Long story short he did cheat on her but I'm not surprised. I don't really look at cheating on the surface anymore. For alot of people who go that route it's about alot more than being greedy or trying to get an extra nut.       


Opposites Attract.

But if you're not happy in your relationship why not express that? What's the point of cheating when you can say how you feel, try to fix it and if there is no change just leave?



It's unconditional, these days you know....

4 fucking k

Something I learned as I got older is that many women don't like to 'start over' so they will deal with their cheating husbands as long as he "comes home to me." It's ridiculous af, IMO.


GRAND

Quote from: K♚NG. on December 04, 2016, 06:41:10 PM
But if you're not happy in your relationship why not express that? What's the point of cheating when you can say how you feel, try to fix it and if there is no change just leave?
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You'll find people are terrible at expressing themselves to significant others as time goes on

Whether they're 16 or 60

RatherBe

It's a deal breaker for me because when I commit, I commit. I know how loyal I am and because I know this I feel like it would be a deservice to myself to accept anything less than what I give out


In a relationship I can give and take on basically anything comittment isn't one of those things



Opposites Attract.

Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on December 04, 2016, 07:39:38 PM
Quote from: K♚NG. on December 04, 2016, 06:41:10 PM
But if you're not happy in your relationship why not express that? What's the point of cheating when you can say how you feel, try to fix it and if there is no change just leave?
v

You'll find people are terrible at expressing themselves to significant others as time goes on

Whether they're 16 or 60

That's weak imo


It's unconditional, these days you know....

4 fucking k

I think a lot of times men cheat to be edgy, try something new or try some new pussy. A lot of times there's no feelings behind it so I can see why a wife would take back a cheating husband. I think for a lot of women the dealbreaker is if the man is in a genuine relationship with the women (going on dates, doing sentimental shit, etc.)


FUCK Bey

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Yea.... I dont have time to be playing Inspector Gadget and losing sleep, wondering if a nigger is still creeping into MelMel's bed.

These poor girls...

:overit:


LOONA.


FlowerBomb

Quote from: Trey on December 04, 2016, 08:24:02 PM
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Yea.... I dont have time to be playing Inspector Gadget and losing sleep, wondering if a nigger is still creeping into MelMel's bed.

These poor girls...

:overit:
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

b7

Quote from: TAE! on December 04, 2016, 11:18:57 AM
Not justifying cheating, but let's say the person who cheated felt like they were being taken for granted in the relationship and have expressed it, but the person who got cheated on hasn't made any changes. Would it be "ok" then? Or something you'd be willing to work through? Sometimes I feel both parties have to take responsibility.
i just feel like a lot of conversations need to happen in between and someone needs to leave or at least discuss leaving so it doesn't even have to get to that

Fuck whoever u want without the guilt

LOONA.

I just feel like you need to stop texting that other nigga

:overit: