How do you guys feel about Crying?

Started by Kurama, November 10, 2015, 12:17:16 PM

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MelMel


iman

Quote from: Kurama on November 10, 2015, 02:53:24 PM
Quote from: iman on November 10, 2015, 02:40:39 PM
I cry easily over the smallest things like watching a show, movie, hearing/reading a story, cute babies, etc. :plzstop:

I honestly wouldnt have guessed this 'Man

Same with you :)

Scott.

Quote from: Kurama on November 10, 2015, 01:44:20 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on November 10, 2015, 01:15:25 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 10, 2015, 12:25:37 PM
Quote from: SCOTTland on November 10, 2015, 12:19:53 PM
I most def feel weak if I cry for real. I hate crying. I just lost my mentor about 3 weeks ago to cancer, and I didn't cry at all until I was alone.

Sorry about your mentor. What makes you feel weak though?

Cause when I was young I cried a lot and those tears and vulnerability were taken as weakness. This ball of anger y'all see is really a defense mechanism

I think I mentioned that when you first joined. You being aware of that though, u dont wanna try an alternative?

I do. It's not fun to be looked at as "the angry one" when I'm far from it but it's like I have  to have my guard up and not show emotion cause I will end up hurt otherwise

FINE.

Crying feels good. It's something I do behind closed doors though.

Hugo

November 11, 2015, 08:59:04 AM #79 Last Edit: November 11, 2015, 08:59:36 AM by Hugo ❤️ Miles ????
Ain't nothing wrong with crying honestly. I've had moments where certain videos of touching  moments made me tear up. Especially when it's sincere. i.e.: those videos where someone does something nice for someone and they just break down. My boyfriend made me cry once by just texting me a few words that were heartfelt.