setting boundaries, but being reasonable

Started by Russian Roulette, January 09, 2021, 06:10:43 PM

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Russian Roulette

January 09, 2021, 06:10:43 PM Last Edit: January 09, 2021, 06:12:09 PM by Martin Luther Kang
I think it's totally OK to set boundaries with a nigga
Especially when ur just starting things off

If ur uncomfortable with something, make it clear and stand in ur mess
If he doesn't respect it, he probably doesn't have interest in building a meaningful relationship so show him the door.

But at the same time, being reasonable enough to where boundaries don't turn into strict limitations - in other words, not being a complete SQUARE. Fnfnnfn

Like, "OK I'm not comfortable with THAT but... BUT...I have an alternative in mind lolz" the alternative being something ur more comfortable with that may be just as fun or exciting for him .

U wanna stand in ur mess but u don't wanna come off as a buzzkill . Let's compromise a bit.

IMO
Grandpa and his grandma

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

are you talking to yourself here 

cause you give boundary Ridgid square all day  

glad you are learning tho there is a medium



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Russian Roulette

Quote from: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on January 09, 2021, 06:27:48 PM
are you talking to yourself here

cause you give boundary Ridgid square all day 

glad you are learning tho there is a medium
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Russian Roulette

January 09, 2021, 06:38:27 PM #3 Last Edit: January 09, 2021, 06:38:51 PM by Martin Luther Kang
tbh yeah I kinda caught myself going into SQUARE territory for a min with someone recently and had to think a bit .

like wait... u don't have to be mary poppins. Let loose a bit
But still stand in ur mess.  :trannyjblige:
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Marilyn

I completely agree. Stand in your mess. Some things are completely unrealistic though. For example, Chilli refusing to date a man who eats pork :uhh:

Not some Jimmy Dean being the dealbreaker

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Russian Roulette

Quote from: Marilyn on January 09, 2021, 06:54:31 PM
I completely agree. Stand in your mess. Some things are completely unrealistic though. For example, Chilli refusing to date a man who eats pork :uhh:

Not some Jimmy Dean being the dealbreaker
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Russian Roulette

Luv GODlli but i think she's gon be single forever

somewhere on twitter talking about "Jesus is my man!!! :plea: "
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Marilyn

!!!! No shade. For BOTH Dallas and Usher to step out, it's pretty clear that she's unbearable. Stunningly beautiful but unbearable.

"He can't drink. He can't smoke. He can't eat pork. He must be fine, with at least a 4pk"

It'll just be you and Tron hun

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Russian Roulette

Quote from: Marilyn on January 09, 2021, 07:13:34 PM
!!!! No shade. For BOTH Dallas and Usher to step out, it's pretty clear that she's unbearable. Stunningly beautiful but unbearable.

"He can't drink. He can't smoke. He can't eat pork. He must be fine, with at least a 4pk"

It'll just be you and Tron hun
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I do respect her for not wavering on her personal standards though . Some women settle JUST to be in a relationship . At least she's not desperate.

But at the same time I can see her being one of those moms who are super attached to their sons cuz they don't have a man in their life .
Grandpa and his grandma

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Marilyn on January 09, 2021, 06:54:31 PM
I completely agree. Stand in your mess. Some things are completely unrealistic though. For example, Chilli refusing to date a man who eats pork :uhh:

Not some Jimmy Dean being the dealbreaker
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:

yeah thats rediculous



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Martin Luther Kang on January 09, 2021, 07:23:30 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on January 09, 2021, 07:13:34 PM
!!!! No shade. For BOTH Dallas and Usher to step out, it's pretty clear that she's unbearable. Stunningly beautiful but unbearable.

"He can't drink. He can't smoke. He can't eat pork. He must be fine, with at least a 4pk"

It'll just be you and Tron hun
r nfnfnfnfnf f f. F

I do respect her for not wavering on her personal standards though . Some women settle JUST to be in a relationship . At least she's not desperate.

But at the same time I can see her being one of those moms who are super attached to their sons cuz they don't have a man in their life .

well they have gon as far to say she sleeping with him so issa prolem :plzstop:



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

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Quote from: three kings on January 09, 2021, 07:23:30 PM
Quote from: Marilyn on January 09, 2021, 07:13:34 PM
!!!! No shade. For BOTH Dallas and Usher to step out, it's pretty clear that she's unbearable. Stunningly beautiful but unbearable.

"He can't drink. He can't smoke. He can't eat pork. He must be fine, with at least a 4pk"

It'll just be you and Tron hun
r nfnfnfnfnf f f. F

I do respect her for not wavering on her personal standards though . Some women settle JUST to be in a relationship . At least she's not desperate.

But at the same time I can see her being one of those moms who are super attached to their sons cuz they don't have a man in their life .
BRANDY