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[JCJ]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is somewhat my overall point.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing

well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means with her usage of the term

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

[JCJ]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing

well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"

They're saying she can't possibly be talking about gays.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing

well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"

yeah it could be either thing .

[klappa.]

I think this is a sub at Jada honestly.

But on a serious note, emasculation starts with a lack of a father. That's the point a lot of the blk men and women miss. They jump straight to what can women do. Black women by no real fault of their own have been put in leadership positions in the house and in the community. This hands off approach men have taken to their sons over the last 30 years has caused many boys to grow up with female authority and men who are only concerned w/ fucking and mind control. In the black community manhood has been reduced to how street/hard you are which doesn't translate well to building homes, husbands, and good fathers. Look at how the black community views Russell W vs. Future. Some would actually argue Future is more of a man or more real than Russ. It's starts with the men

disagree a bit. what you're describing isn't emasculation. you're touching on how the warped sense of what masculinity IS in the black community. lack of a father in the home has definitely led to a warped sense of masculinity. thats different.

i think tichina is referring TO those "good husbands, fathers, etc" who are emasculated by women. and if she was referring to will and jada, that would reinforce the idea that she's referring to the emasculation of  "good men"

although, i dont see how jada has emasculated will. twitter did that.

[RAY7]

It can't be either thing, she said the specific word she was referring to . 

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

That feeling he may have doesn't mean he's crossed over to femininity completely. Just means he doesn't "feel like a man" in that moment . But Doesn't mean he feels like a woman . If that makes sense .

[RAY7]

Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

exactly. It is not the same

[JCJ]

Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.

[JCJ]

Some of y'all need to take a gender studies class and it shows 

[klappa.]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

theres a difference between feeling emasculated and being emasculated. intentional emasculation by an outside source. i think its safe to say she's referring to that latter

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.

many men may feel doing dishes or vacuuming the floor is not feminine at all.

Or cooking, etc.

It depends on the man.

[JCJ]

Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.

many men may feel doing dishes or vacuuming the floor is not feminine at all.

Or cooking, etc.

It depends on the man.

I'm talking traditionally what these things are considered

[klappa.]

Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.

to an ignorant misogynist maybe. because that's EXACTLY what we call niggas who think its a woman's "role" to do the dishes.

so to normal ppl, theres nothing feminine abt washing dishes

[klappa.]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing

well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"

yeah it could be either thing .

no it couldn't tho lol

how would women be aiding in men "acting gay?" in the first place for her to ask how they can stop? that angle just doesn't make any sense bbys