BBYS HELP! EMERGENC' !

Started by oph., July 27, 2023, 01:52:26 PM

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oph.

Quote from: Black Aweikoma on July 27, 2023, 04:56:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 27, 2023, 04:46:15 PMThe other guy claiming him as his bf means nothing if he doesn't claim him back. It takes 2 people to be in an actual relationship. So if he just went with the flow and didnt speak up, he needed to.
Well ur kinda assuming Oph didn't say anything to him after he began claiming him again

Maybe I overlooked something but Oph didn't  get that far in this mini story of the FWB thing not working out

At least not in his response to me

He just said he started claiming him again. He didn't speak to how he handled it

yea we def had a conversation about why we were where we were and what i needed in order for us to work. him fumbling that is how we ended up here.

now he all apologizin and shit


oph.

Quote from: L0NZ. on July 27, 2023, 05:22:50 PMIf you want advice you gotta be forthcoming with the tea

i aint know you was gon go iyanla on me



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L0NZ.

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Sounds like you want him so just keep him until you find better.

Barbie Dangerous

July 27, 2023, 10:23:13 PM #34 Last Edit: July 27, 2023, 10:24:31 PM by Big Barbie
Lonz was PREACHING a bit. It's a tough position to be in but you'll have to cut him off unless there's been some real change/growth. It's obvious you want to be with him and he does too but it doesn't sound like you can accept his stipulations. I would say to go the fwb route but it's clear that neither one of you are capable of that without catching feelings which is fine but you have to be honest with yourself.