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[Gilgamesh.]

She was just on live addressing this and of course "Daddy" is doing all the talking 

[stillpretty]

Mo'nique needs to stop "praying to the universe".... and should damn near be at the feet of her son, completely humbled, making it clear that she's ready to do whatever it takes to even partially make things sorta right.

that's the type of elbow grease these types of mistakes call for.

i can 100% see why he feels she's very self-centered, and that her ego takes precedence over everything else - including her own child.

[Amazing]

her son has valid points though.

its not enough to just say "im sorry" for something like this and that seems to be the extent of what Mo has done ...from what I can hear from her own words.

she says "i apologized for ALL of it" which is great.

but he said something so powerful in this video:
"standing in your truth doesn't make you noble."

he is a very smart and very articulate man. he's literally saying that simply admitting your wrongs doesn't give you a gold star of some sort, and a free pass, and everything's better now cuz you admit you did wrong.

not for something as huge as parenthood, and how it can affect your children.

my father made some mistakes in the past.

but he's shown me that saying "my bad" isn't ALL that he feels he has to do. he makes an effort to be there, to come to me. to approach me, to extend as many branches as he can to me, as often as he can.

there's a certain recognition on his part that even though I am an adult now, i am still his CHILD. and thats how he handles me. like i am his child. not like we're on some sort of equal playing field , where one side is waiting for the other to make the first move.

this is what this handsome young man wants from his parent. not just "sorry bout that lol but call me whenever you ready to move forward  <3 im here when u ready"

I'm not sure she was the monster he thinks she was. She was absent a lot because she was touring and making TV shows and films. In return he never had to worry about the material things. He doesn't say she was abusive just that she was not there as much as he needed her.

He definitely has a point but I know a lot of people who have grievances about their parents. It's difficult job to get right especially for a young mom with special needs who was sexually molested. I can tell he is smarter than her and maybe should afford her some grace that she did the best she was able to. What about the daddy?

[Vonc2002]

She really ate that. So much so that you see how horrible Mariah was 

Mariah wasn't bad to me either but monique really did eat this scene

[Nine]

her son has valid points though.

its not enough to just say "im sorry" for something like this and that seems to be the extent of what Mo has done ...from what I can hear from her own words.

she says "i apologized for ALL of it" which is great.

but he said something so powerful in this video:
"standing in your truth doesn't make you noble."

he is a very smart and very articulate man. he's literally saying that simply admitting your wrongs doesn't give you a gold star of some sort, and a free pass, and everything's better now cuz you admit you did wrong.

not for something as huge as parenthood, and how it can affect your children.

my father made some mistakes in the past.

but he's shown me that saying "my bad" isn't ALL that he feels he has to do. he makes an effort to be there, to come to me. to approach me, to extend as many branches as he can to me, as often as he can.

there's a certain recognition on his part that even though I am an adult now, i am still his CHILD. and thats how he handles me. like i am his child. not like we're on some sort of equal playing field , where one side is waiting for the other to make the first move.

this is what this handsome young man wants from his parent. not just "sorry bout that lol but call me whenever you ready to move forward  <3 im here when u ready"

I'm not sure she was the monster he thinks she was.

n

How are you gonna tell this man about his experience with his own mother?

Be fr.

[Gilgamesh.]

her son has valid points though.

its not enough to just say "im sorry" for something like this and that seems to be the extent of what Mo has done ...from what I can hear from her own words.

she says "i apologized for ALL of it" which is great.

but he said something so powerful in this video:
"standing in your truth doesn't make you noble."

he is a very smart and very articulate man. he's literally saying that simply admitting your wrongs doesn't give you a gold star of some sort, and a free pass, and everything's better now cuz you admit you did wrong.

not for something as huge as parenthood, and how it can affect your children.

my father made some mistakes in the past.

but he's shown me that saying "my bad" isn't ALL that he feels he has to do. he makes an effort to be there, to come to me. to approach me, to extend as many branches as he can to me, as often as he can.

there's a certain recognition on his part that even though I am an adult now, i am still his CHILD. and thats how he handles me. like i am his child. not like we're on some sort of equal playing field , where one side is waiting for the other to make the first move.

this is what this handsome young man wants from his parent. not just "sorry bout that lol but call me whenever you ready to move forward  <3 im here when u ready"

I'm not sure she was the monster he thinks she was.

n

How are you gonna tell this man about his experience with his own mother?

Be fr.

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By that logic, I don't think Oprah and Lee were the monsters that Monique says they were, I mean she got paid didn't she? 

[Vonc2002]

That amazing person is WHEW

[I. Hate. Monica.]

her son has valid points though.

its not enough to just say "im sorry" for something like this and that seems to be the extent of what Mo has done ...from what I can hear from her own words.

she says "i apologized for ALL of it" which is great.

but he said something so powerful in this video:
"standing in your truth doesn't make you noble."

he is a very smart and very articulate man. he's literally saying that simply admitting your wrongs doesn't give you a gold star of some sort, and a free pass, and everything's better now cuz you admit you did wrong.

not for something as huge as parenthood, and how it can affect your children.

my father made some mistakes in the past.

but he's shown me that saying "my bad" isn't ALL that he feels he has to do. he makes an effort to be there, to come to me. to approach me, to extend as many branches as he can to me, as often as he can.

there's a certain recognition on his part that even though I am an adult now, i am still his CHILD. and thats how he handles me. like i am his child. not like we're on some sort of equal playing field , where one side is waiting for the other to make the first move.

this is what this handsome young man wants from his parent. not just "sorry bout that lol but call me whenever you ready to move forward  <3 im here when u ready"

I'm not sure she was the monster he thinks she was.

n

How are you gonna tell this man about his experience with his own mother?

Be fr.

[Vonc2002]

Not correcting his critique of his relationship with his mother. U online people are really sumn else

[I. Hate. Monica.]

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That was weird as fuck   

[stillpretty]

her son has valid points though.

its not enough to just say "im sorry" for something like this and that seems to be the extent of what Mo has done ...from what I can hear from her own words.

she says "i apologized for ALL of it" which is great.

but he said something so powerful in this video:
"standing in your truth doesn't make you noble."

he is a very smart and very articulate man. he's literally saying that simply admitting your wrongs doesn't give you a gold star of some sort, and a free pass, and everything's better now cuz you admit you did wrong.

not for something as huge as parenthood, and how it can affect your children.

my father made some mistakes in the past.

but he's shown me that saying "my bad" isn't ALL that he feels he has to do. he makes an effort to be there, to come to me. to approach me, to extend as many branches as he can to me, as often as he can.

there's a certain recognition on his part that even though I am an adult now, i am still his CHILD. and thats how he handles me. like i am his child. not like we're on some sort of equal playing field , where one side is waiting for the other to make the first move.

this is what this handsome young man wants from his parent. not just "sorry bout that lol but call me whenever you ready to move forward  <3 im here when u ready"

I'm not sure she was the monster he thinks she was. She was absent a lot because she was touring and making TV shows and films. In return he never had to worry about the material things. He doesn't say she was abusive just that she was not there as much as he needed her.

He definitely has a point but I know a lot of people who have grievances about their parents. It's difficult job to get right especially for a young mom with special needs who was sexually molested. I can tell he is smarter than her and maybe should afford her some grace that she did the best she was able to. What about the daddy?

the thing I think he's having a hard time with is that Mo'nique is actually aware of everything she did wrong

she's not oblivious.

so the fact that she can admit her wrongdoing...and if she wasn't smart and wise enough before to clock her own tea, she is able to now...but yet he doesn't feel a genuine interest on her part to put in work

he cant be lying because every time i see mo'nique talk about this sitaution, she's always basically saying "I apologized, and now I pray to the universe."

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there's never really a mention of actual work she puts in or any initiative she's taken to make things right.

it's almost as if she mentions these apologies to simply add more brownie points to her personal chalkboard. and this triggers her son.

and this is not to demonize Mo'nique but this entire thing with her son def gives credence to the idea that she's a bit of a narc.

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

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Can't defend Mo on this other than her relationship w/ her son has nothing to do with her feeling she was wronged professionally

I wish my boss would say some shit about my personal relationships when I come to him about a pay grievance

 

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

But yeah, this looks bad

She did say she didn't know how to be a mother until she met "Daddy" and they had kids together and he "taught" her


  

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

her son has valid points though.

its not enough to just say "im sorry" for something like this and that seems to be the extent of what Mo has done ...from what I can hear from her own words.

she says "i apologized for ALL of it" which is great.

but he said something so powerful in this video:
"standing in your truth doesn't make you noble."

he is a very smart and very articulate man. he's literally saying that simply admitting your wrongs doesn't give you a gold star of some sort, and a free pass, and everything's better now cuz you admit you did wrong.

not for something as huge as parenthood, and how it can affect your children.

my father made some mistakes in the past.

but he's shown me that saying "my bad" isn't ALL that he feels he has to do. he makes an effort to be there, to come to me. to approach me, to extend as many branches as he can to me, as often as he can.

there's a certain recognition on his part that even though I am an adult now, i am still his CHILD. and thats how he handles me. like i am his child. not like we're on some sort of equal playing field , where one side is waiting for the other to make the first move.

this is what this handsome young man wants from his parent. not just "sorry bout that lol but call me whenever you ready to move forward  <3 im here when u ready"

I'm not sure she was the monster he thinks she was. She was absent a lot because she was touring and making TV shows and films. In return he never had to worry about the material things. He doesn't say she was abusive just that she was not there as much as he needed her.

He definitely has a point but I know a lot of people who have grievances about their parents. It's difficult job to get right especially for a young mom with special needs who was sexually molested. I can tell he is smarter than her and maybe should afford her some grace that she did the best she was able to. What about the daddy?

the thing I think he's having a hard time with is that Mo'nique is actually aware of everything she did wrong

she's not oblivious.

so the fact that she can admit her wrongdoing...and if she wasn't smart and wise enough before to clock her own tea, she is able to now...but yet he doesn't feel a genuine interest on her part to put in work

he cant be lying because every time i see mo'nique talk about this sitaution, she's always basically saying "I apologized, and now I pray to the universe."

sfnsnfjnfjfssjjnsfjfssf

there's never really a mention of actual work she puts in or any initiative she's taken to make things right.

it's almost as if she mentions these apologies to simply add more brownie points to her personal chalkboard. and this triggers her son.

and this is not to demonize Mo'nique but this entire thing with her son def gives credence to the idea that she's a bit of a narc.

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She hasnt denied being a horrible mother to him, for what it's worth

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

I don't think it's as bad as 50 Cent and his first child, where she left him broke and destitute. She was just out trying to become a star