kinda hard to play stepford wife when u the one paying the bills
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if we're really talking traditional... stereotypical roles, ur kinda the "man" of the relationship
i'd say kandi is someone who actively tries to fill both roles - of main breadwinner and tryna be the "perfect wife" but even with her trying to do that, because she's so driven and successful...and paid... it still causes issues for them.
From her mama dragging Todd for being less than, to Todd saying she does too much, while he benefits from all her work
Tamera's husband comes from money and can provide. It's much easier to fall in line with a "stepford wife" role when u have a husband like that.
Ultimately Tia chose the wrong man. And it took her a minute to realize that