Quote from: Aalonso. on September 14, 2024, 10:28:27 AMDef a touch of neglect. I recently saw this, apparently Ray didn't know how to properly wash his ass and balls at 14/15 years old
And then that reminds me about him as an adult saying men should wear black underwear so the doodoo stains don't show
as unfortunate as it is to say this... I think this is pretty common among straight men
They don't wanna talk about their booty, they don't even want it regularly checked out by the doctor even if it could detect prostate cancer early on and literally save their life
His father would have been the person to have these conversations with him . And it's hard for me to imagine a straight man , especially one from Willies generation, giving a whole PowerPoint mess on how to clean your butthole
I think with newer generations of straight men it's getting better. Properly cleaning , grooming and moisturizing yourself isn't such a "gay" or "feminine" thing anymore
But there's a whole lotta straight men out here with stank booties and skid marks
My father will proudly let u know he can't leave the house without his chapstick and he needs to moisturize his arms if they lookin ashy. But he also sings along to "body party" by Ciara and other mess too. Ndnfnfnfnfnf He's very secure in his manhood which allows him to do what he wants and say how he feels without fear of detracting from it. but I wouldn't say that's the norm for black hetero men from his generation