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[saveme]

Well, I lost my older brother on Halloween. I feel like my grip on the world is going through a bit of an adjustment. He was my first friend in this world. It's crazy that he's literally gone. I'm definitely in seclusion mode right now. I feel like nothing will ever be the same again, in the sense that everything is now tarnished. You can clean up a mess or reset bones and such. But, you can't rewind the clock and undo the situation. I don't think i'll ever be the person I was or even want to. The healing process will be lifelong. The damage can never be reversed.

If anyone wants to share their experience dealing and coping with sudden loss, I'd love to read it.

[oph.]

I was about to get vulnerable but then I saw the responses
 

ignore them hun

It's doesn't feel safe here

literally ignore them gors

[oph.]

Well, I lost my older brother on Halloween. I feel like my grip on the world is going through a bit of an adjustment. He was my first friend in this world. It's crazy that he's literally gone. I'm definitely in seclusion mode right now. I feel like nothing will ever be the same again, in the sense that everything is now tarnished. You can clean up a mess or reset bones and such. But, you can't rewind the clock and undo the situation. I don't think i'll ever be the person I was or even want to. The healing process will be lifelong. The damage can never be reversed.

If anyone wants to share their experience dealing and coping with sudden loss, I'd love to read it.

shit babe, im honestly so sorry you going through this. i can say it feels like it'll be forever but it wont be. i dont want to be annoying with any cliché saying, but i'll just say you can still talk to him anytime. i believe they're still listening. we lost the physical, not the energy, love, and relationship. thats forever.

[oph.]

to share myself, i'm dealing with the end of a relationship rn. its in the phase of its really feeling like its over but neither wants to let go. its got me battling depression and feeling like a failure in what was supposed to be forever. fucking sucks fr

[saveme]

Well, I lost my older brother on Halloween. I feel like my grip on the world is going through a bit of an adjustment. He was my first friend in this world. It's crazy that he's literally gone. I'm definitely in seclusion mode right now. I feel like nothing will ever be the same again, in the sense that everything is now tarnished. You can clean up a mess or reset bones and such. But, you can't rewind the clock and undo the situation. I don't think i'll ever be the person I was or even want to. The healing process will be lifelong. The damage can never be reversed.

If anyone wants to share their experience dealing and coping with sudden loss, I'd love to read it.

shit babe, im honestly so sorry you going through this. i can say it feels like it'll be forever but it wont be. i dont want to be annoying with any cliché saying, but i'll just say you can still talk to him anytime. i believe they're still listening. we lost the physical, not the energy, love, and relationship. thats forever.

You're very kind and I agree 100% I believe I felt his presence a few times and I truly believe he is in a better place. I will talk to him and carry him with me through the rest of my life. I have to do this for the both of us, now

to share myself, i'm dealing with the end of a relationship rn. its in the phase of its really feeling like its over but neither wants to let go. its got me battling depression and feeling like a failure in what was supposed to be forever. fucking sucks fr

I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It sucks! But, you aren't a failure at all. You are only human, like the rest of us, and unfortunately most of us experience major heartbreak at least once.

Is there any chance the two of you may work it out in the future? They say that depression is anger directed inward. It's perfectly normal to feel depressed in situations that are out of our control. Try to find an outlet to release your frustration and express emotions in a healthy way. I love dancing, the physicality and exertion can be quite cathartic.

Keep talking about it. I find that helpful, as well. You feel like a weight has lifted. How long have you been together and what's leading to a breakdown with you guys??

[I. Hate. Monica.]

to share myself, i'm dealing with the end of a relationship rn. its in the phase of its really feeling like its over but neither wants to let go. its got me battling depression and feeling like a failure in what was supposed to be forever. fucking sucks fr

I'm sorry to hear that! I hope things get better and you take care of yourself

[oph.]

i really appreciate that yall forreal.

we been together for the better part of 4 abd a half years. and it really just comes down to him being short-tempered and overreactive and me being defensive and stubborn. neither one of us have been saints, so theres definitely shared accountability but at this point we just can't even communicate. this shit feels like a damn summer walker song FR

@makeme i love that mindset in regard to you brother. have you ever seen that movie the 6th man? i truly believe a less goody version of that is what happens. theyre legit guiding us now

[Hatsumomo]

to share myself, i'm dealing with the end of a relationship rn. its in the phase of its really feeling like its over but neither wants to let go. its got me battling depression and feeling like a failure in what was supposed to be forever. fucking sucks fr

So
Sorry boo.

[Kalifornia.]

Well, I lost my older brother on Halloween. I feel like my grip on the world is going through a bit of an adjustment. He was my first friend in this world. It's crazy that he's literally gone. I'm definitely in seclusion mode right now. I feel like nothing will ever be the same again, in the sense that everything is now tarnished. You can clean up a mess or reset bones and such. But, you can't rewind the clock and undo the situation. I don't think i'll ever be the person I was or even want to. The healing process will be lifelong. The damage can never be reversed.

If anyone wants to share their experience dealing and coping with sudden loss, I'd love to read it.

I'm so sorry to hear about your brother, and about the difficulty you're having. Everything you're feeling right now is natural. Getting used to your new normal is going to take time, but eventually you will. Just be patient with yourself and your emotions.

[Kalifornia.]

to share myself, i'm dealing with the end of a relationship rn. its in the phase of its really feeling like its over but neither wants to let go. its got me battling depression and feeling like a failure in what was supposed to be forever. fucking sucks fr

I'm sorry hon. Try not to be so hard on yourself. All that matters is you know you gave the relationship your all.

Sometimes it's just not meant to be, and that's ok.

Instead of calling it a failure think of yourself as evolving, and unfortunately not every relationship is meant to continue on that journey with us.

[Scott.]

to share myself, i'm dealing with the end of a relationship rn. its in the phase of its really feeling like its over but neither wants to let go. its got me battling depression and feeling like a failure in what was supposed to be forever. fucking sucks fr

This is the worst kind of feeling

[Jon]

Well, I lost my older brother on Halloween. I feel like my grip on the world is going through a bit of an adjustment. He was my first friend in this world. It's crazy that he's literally gone. I'm definitely in seclusion mode right now. I feel like nothing will ever be the same again, in the sense that everything is now tarnished. You can clean up a mess or reset bones and such. But, you can't rewind the clock and undo the situation. I don't think i'll ever be the person I was or even want to. The healing process will be lifelong. The damage can never be reversed.

If anyone wants to share their experience dealing and coping with sudden loss, I'd love to read it.

I'm so sorry to hear this.

 All we can do is take it one day at a time. I wish I could say grief gets easier to manage but it doesn't. We have to learn to live with it as time heals.

[oph.]

thank yall 🙏🏾

i honestly don't talk about it much with others because i never want to turn my friends/family against my partner so i really appreciate your words