Home

[NEW MOON]

as in, doctor's note

as it appears u just provided complete medical clearance from last night

Seems like a lot of things appear differently to you.

u literally said "she wasn't unwell" as if it's fact with no evidence or even close proximity to her to confirm it.

If there's a lie somewhere in that sentence , point it out

It was my opinion.

You took it as a fact. You have a habit of doing that.

you stated it as fact, so how else would it be taken?

There was no "it's possible" or "maybe" to be found. You communicated it with complete confidence as if you knew something.

Can't believe I have to explain this, but here we are.

And this is going nowhere so we can end it here

I had conviction in my opinion. YOU asked for proof bc you wanted to argue, knowing it was said as an opinion because there's nothing more it could be

You're contrary. We can def end here.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Some people really need to just accept the fact that they're not Brandy fans anymore. For whatever reason. Be it her inconsistency, changes in how she delivers her art, the way she dances, whatever.

Just accept the fact that you are someone who once was a fan but now are not and just appreciates her when she was in her prime.

Because it's only the so called Stars who are quick to kick their fave when she's down.

Just accept it and move on. And let us real fans who still ride for her enjoy this moment in time that we may never get again.

real shit.

instead of trying to CHANGE and GUIDE and MOLD this 45+ year old woman

snddsjnjnsdjnsdjsdjsdjsdsddssdds

GHan has always had certain ways about her

her introverted teas, her anxiety, her overall randomness...i mean, this is GHan.

i'd say your suggestion is much more realistic than sitting around and waiting for her to change.

and worse,  dragging her for behavior/"antics" that we honestly should expect at this point.



she's not our child, or our mentee

she's a grown ass woman who's older than most of us who is tryna do what she feels she wants to do, when she wants to do it.

[The definition]

View this post on Instagram

[NEW MOON]

So you agree these antics are to be expected.

so lord knows why you're being a contrarian trying to act like she hasn't pulled this stunt before and arguing over proof of medical claims...knowing damn well deductive reasoning would inform you it's BS.
 

Anyway glad she's better today. Hope the shows improve from here on out!

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

So you agree these antics are to be expected.
 

notice how i put quotations on "antics"

this is another example in here of how you're not great with communication.
and an example of how i practice what i preach.

which is: details matter

i don't agree GHan pulls "antics" at all.

[Luxury]

D

[NEW MOON]

So you agree these antics are to be expected.
 

notice how i put quotations on "antics"

this is another example in here of how you're not great with communication.
and an example of how i practice what i preach.

which is: details matter

i don't agree GHan pulls "antics" at all.

You're not as smart as you think when you wanna flip/flop on which semantic you deem applicable.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

So you agree these antics are to be expected.
 

notice how i put quotations on "antics"

this is another example in here of how you're not great with communication.
and an example of how i practice what i preach.

which is: details matter

i don't agree GHan pulls "antics" at all.

You're not as smart as you think when you wanna flip/flop on which semantic you deem applicable.

and u totally have the right to feel that way

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

[NEW MOON]

So you agree these antics are to be expected.
 

notice how i put quotations on "antics"

this is another example in here of how you're not great with communication.
and an example of how i practice what i preach.

which is: details matter

i don't agree GHan pulls "antics" at all.

You're not as smart as you think when you wanna flip/flop on which semantic you deem applicable.

and u totally have the right to feel that way

You said her behavior is to be expected period. whether you deem it as an antic is subjective.

I hope you stand on what you preach and purchased several tickets. One for each righteous comment you make on here.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

So you agree these antics are to be expected.
 

notice how i put quotations on "antics"

this is another example in here of how you're not great with communication.
and an example of how i practice what i preach.

which is: details matter

i don't agree GHan pulls "antics" at all.

You're not as smart as you think when you wanna flip/flop on which semantic you deem applicable.

and u totally have the right to feel that way

You said her behavior is to be expected. period. whether you deem it as an antic is subjective.

I hope you stand on what you preach and purchased several tickets. One for each righteous comment you make on here.

ok

[klappa.]

was there ever any official source that said brandy was sick or unwell? if not, it seems like that was just a narrative pushed by some fans in order to avoid holding her accountable for walking off state and not finishing the show. i don't think anyone should have their "fandom" questioned for calling it what it seemed to be. 

either way, glad they're back in the swing of things because they looked and sounded amazing. even with the tech issues.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

was there ever any official source that said brandy was sick or unwell?

GHan - she confirmed a hospital visit last night.

[Summertime]

A fan litmus test always gets handed out when Brandy messes up .
Brandy has surrounded herself with yes men for a long time and will always, so she'll be alright having a few people acknowledge her long standing unprofessionalism.
She gets written about at times like she's 5 and doesn't know better.
Like come on, Brandy pulls this ill mess every time over lipping issues.
Then to turnaround and gaslight fans for acknowledging it as a repeated habit is ridiculous.
She just ghosted fans a few years ago when she was supposed to perform at Frank Gaston's charity event.
I hate how being a fan turned into acting like we are part of a cult.




 

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

A fan litmus test always gets handed out when Brandy messes up .
Brandy has surrounded herself with yes men for a long time and will always, so she'll be alright having a few people acknowledge her long standing unprofessionalism.
She gets written about at times like she's 5 and doesn't know better.
Like come on, Brandy pulls this ill mess every time over lipping issues.
Then to turnaround and gaslight fans for acknowledging it as a repeated habit is ridiculous.
She just ghosted fans a few years ago when she was supposed to perform at Frank Gaston's charity event.
I hate how being a fan turned into acting like we are part of a cult.




 

if you feel someone has a strong pattern of certain behavior

at what point do you simply .... expect it?

that's my only question. and what i have a hard time with tbh

when someone shows me aspects of who they are, i take note and set expectations accordingly

i don't BANG them on top of the head until i get a desired change that never seems to arrive.

this isn't just for fav artists, i'm talking life in general as well.
IMO, and this may sound crazy but: it saves me a lot of frustration and annoyance.