thank u so much bvys!
i promised myself that once i was done with my lil ancestry/self discovery mess that i'd get back to other things
but it actually helped me because i was kinda FORCED to stick with it if i wanted conclusive answers
not "good enough" answers and guesses that still left me feeling as if i missed something
being able to discover that i descend from a group of people that i (and most people) never even heard of was like finding a needle in a haystack. it low key boosted my confidence in regards to what i can achieve when i REALLY am invested and stick with it something.
Most importantly: it taught me to be patient and follow data instead of my feelings.
god bless Kalmykia and everything but i gots work tah do!