I feel bad for those who equate their self worth to how many men sleep with them.
A friend of mine had self esteem issues since we were like 16 ... We hung out in the same circle. Beautiful boy ... But he was one of those people who grew into his looks. So although he was gorgeous , he still felt like a duckling IMO.... always unsure of himself and in constant need of validation . Either from us fishing for compliments, or hunched under a man thinking their dick in his mouth or ass was confirmation of his worth.
He contracted HIV ... It was heartbreaking to see him with a head full of gray hair at 25. It's kicking his ass.