Almost forgot to update ya'll.

She was there today. Looks like she grabbed more stability over the weekend. Still had her suitcase with her though. She stayed out of town for the weekend with friends. She told me she had my money for me for booking the room which was a pleasant surprise. But I was rushing out the door to go home so I told her not to worry about it right now.
I'm honestly just glad she's OK and finding her footing. And also happy that she clearly got the message that I am not going to be anyone's sponsor. Part of me wants her to keep the money if it would help her, for some reason I feel that she thinks I am looking for it back. It was my idea to get her the room, so in my book she shouldn't have to pay it back.
but hell, if she's offering me the money back I damn sure ain't gonna fight her about it. I don't know her like that.