You knew what you were doing. I don't think ur a bad person and I don't believe you were shading Brandy either
I don't even all the way care about THAT. What I called out and really noticed more than anything, is you enjoying and getting a kick outta everyone saying jumping on YOUR "she's moving too slow! Wtf is wrong with her" bandwagon.
And you aren't the only one lol there are several members here that live for this kind of thread and try and mask it as concern. I actually think ur a good guy
Don't even take it as an attack. Just watch ur thoughts and ur intent, and you won't feel attacked. I could have approached that better and worded some things differently, though. That I'll admit
But you still tried it in your own way and you know it. I've never ever been oblivious. Not never.