Say something nice about a member you tend to "oppose"...

Started by Sharon., May 11, 2016, 07:55:16 AM

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yummy

so...these people see us telling each other 'you have aids' and making those crude jokes about shannon and laiyah?

:udontlookok:

Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





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Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 11, 2016, 05:20:26 PM
Quote from: 1Tarig on May 11, 2016, 05:14:46 PM
A lot of us say "oh there's only like 20 active members here" and blah blah, but I get so many texts and messages from people that are NOT members
:dead: they see it all. People literally be on here for hours on end that we dont know about

I used to see Afro say that quite often and i know it to be true now. All kinds of bloggers, celebs, makeup artists ssddsd some of everybody be up n through here

are we famous


ssdsdsdssssdssdsd in a way ...   
























YEA LMAO! now pose with me faggot



yummy

I'm over here screaming

I always just mess and never think twice about the fact there are people all over the world who come and view the board daily

I might have to simmer downe a bit :diddraispoot:


Kurama

Quote from: ANIMMAI on May 11, 2016, 05:45:20 PM
simmer downe a bit :diddraispoot:

Yeah put that damn cig out love

Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Genesis

Quote from: 1Tarig on May 11, 2016, 08:15:51 AM
Big Bertha, Genesis and Desi all want to be understood and I want to do a better job of doing just that. I may not care for their style, but I can still communicate better

I think they all have big hearts that are just maybe a little chilly right now cuz they feel they always need to be on the defensive.
Especially when the whole damn board gangs up on you daily :howfestive:

But thanks and this post was sweet. Never had a problem with you in general. Maybe some disagreements but it never went too damn far like with others on here :plzstop: . Water under the bridge



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Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 05:26:12 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 05:20:23 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 05:14:20 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 05:09:41 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 05:05:31 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 04:57:23 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 04:54:36 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 04:52:26 PM
Quote from: GRAND on May 11, 2016, 04:43:54 PM
Why is this thread so offensive to the people that don't care


I don't get it :dead:
Not being HOT because we are voicing positivity  :kii:

it's fake positivity tho.
its not coming from a real place....

that's the worst kinda "positivity" to display
How the fck is it not coming from a real place? no one here owes anyone ANYTHING! Dont nobody have to say anything about anyone.  U seem miserable tbh, it's unbecoming

cause it's bullshit. loll

you one of the main ones recently making the big ole spectacle, making a thread shading afro
And did u bypass the posts in here where we realized where things started, why things became tha way they did,  apologized and moved forward.  You're too old to be this way.  This board has really done a number on you

but luv...
I can't purchase what you're trying to sell me. I know it aint real gorl...

cause as soon as he says something you might not like yall will be back to square one
and vice versa....yall can only "play nice" but for so long until yall reveal your true selves...
But who in here said we are all going to be friends after this?  :dead:
Why because i said someone is smart does that have to mean I'm not gonna check them accordingly when necessary? No one is claiming to have swept all issues under the rug from here on out.  There's TONS of messy ass threads here,  why is it so crazy to have one where there's a cease fire and we all just be civil? We were all in ur thread advocating for u to have that and not everyone there was some mel fan. Ur doing the same thing lew did in there and it makes u look miserable tbh. Im done responding to your mess :dead:

BECAUSE YOU DON'T MEAN IT. LOL
the only reason you're saying anything is because you're being prompted to do so...

you cant stand him, you can't stand lew....
so I'm perplexed as to why you're trying to give nice. you know you dont mean it Lavaughn. lol
You dont really pay attention as much as you say you do

Vonc' softened on Lew WEEKS ago. Open your eyes/heart Mel. You definitely aren't the guy i came across 5 years ago, right now. I mean, we've all evolved, but i dont like some of what ur putting out there. Its really not the same

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Quote from: THEO FOR MOD 2016 on May 11, 2016, 05:29:25 PM
Quote from: 1Tarig on May 11, 2016, 05:24:29 PM
Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 11, 2016, 04:41:54 PM
I see what that FAGGGOT Theo did

He tried to take my appreciation mess and run off with it so the girls could feel fresh love .. And remember this thread because the final election is days away!



Hmm...brilliant! Smart even!

Ur gonna down NIGG'
;c;s;aqaqqqqqqqq

:ttlo:

wtf

wtf?

:omgwatshappening:

Defiance.
Get em Theo bby!

wanna see how this battle turns out

:ohwow:


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Quote from: BENTLEY! on May 11, 2016, 05:31:47 PM
Hmmmm ... I think I see where Mel is coming from in the sense that ppl have said and did REALLY messed up stuff to him.

I feel like he's the kind of person that immediately separates the kind of ppl that can do nasty things into a "trash" pile of sorts.

Whereas everyone here is different, but I do see where he's getting the fake from in his argument.

And it's true in some members cases, but others are really genuine and kinda breeze thru the board not taking certain spats serious.
!!!!!!!!! this is spot on

i just wish him even more balance and i know he'll find it. Not for anyone else but himself

Glenda

I always figured people lurked. Hell, I lurk sometimes even when I'm not a member. We're an entertaining bunch.

And tbh I think the HIV and AIDS jokes are very offensive, late and not funny. A lot of you I'm surprised to see them coming from because you all are so intelligent.  :uhh: The jokes make you all come off as very HIV phobic and that isn't cute.

Cringe worthy even.



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Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 05:33:18 PM
Quote from: 1Tarig on May 11, 2016, 05:29:46 PM
Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 04:44:02 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 11, 2016, 04:32:57 PM
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Why are we so quick to dismiss the impact of social/internet networks in this day in age. Especially considering an environment like this where members have been intimately e-involved since they were teens??
That's a good question, and I think it all has to do with walls a lot of us put up. These days it's all about who's the most "unbothered", "above it all"..."it's just a website, it's just a social network". I think many of us including myself are guilty of it to a lesser or greater extent.

In 2016 social networking accounts for a lot of interaction we have with one another. Maybe back in the era of dial-up/flip phones the term "it's just a <<insert random social network here>> " would be very relevant.

But people have lost their lives over social media beefs. I know a family that just had a bunch of drama based off of mess that went down on Facebook. These are still very relevant interactions, just through a different channel. I think the more people realize this, the less people will lose their jobs from FB posts or have people in front of their doors ready to fight "just" because they posted something offensive on Instagram.
!!!!!

and my perspective is a little different because i know im a rare breed in terms of being super super outgoing, and then all of a sudden
back into "hiding" whenever i see fit. I always make sure to still chat to as many people as possible even when indoors, but sometimes i shut everything off for peace, so although i cant speak for everyone here (and shouldn't try to) i do know that i personally have gone through at least a hundred different stages logging on to this site over the last 5 n a half years

I thought I'd outgrown it and even had negative thoughts of "Oh im above this shit now, too negative! haha" but i was dead wrong. I needed to come back and reintroduce myself, and for real this time. We're all real people. Every single one of us. It doesn't matter if its behind a screen. There's a LIFE behind the screen that we dont get to see and thats a big deal.
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1ESPYx66pA8

:wub:
SO true. A lot of it is a choice 

But in my case, (right before i stopped posting for a couple weeks) I've learned through God that i'm the epitome of what an empath is. I feel it now more than ever, so there are MANY threads i haven't even read yet because i already know where it's going. I couldn't quite handle it at the time but now i just tell myself that i wont even enter a thread to even read it or go beyond page 1 if it's gonna bother me so much. It's all real life so i dont separate the two as much,anymore. SO, in this life, I'm now learning to feel and touch others without becoming so emotionally overwhelmed.

As you know, Artists of any kind can feel it more than anyone at times. It can be too much if you let it, but im great now.