Malcolm, I see that there's a lot going on behind the scenes. For starters, BOTH of you are keeping your options open. You're physically attracted to him and he enjoys your company but I see his intentions aren't good. I can't put my finger on what exactly is he's trying to do but it's like night and day between how you feel and how he does. You see him as someone who's good-looking and fun to talk to but he see's you as competition. Like he's trying to one-up you or somethin'. Also I see a woman influence in his life. He has aspirations with settling down with a woman. Idk for sure if he's married but I see that that's his wish. There's a woman in his life. Is he Muslim?