I would have really fckn GATHERED Tamar to be honest. She tried her entire life in the second clip. Like sis, this is the REAL, you aren't supposed to judge and try and shame, you should encourage people to share even uncomfortable truths.
And there is not anything wrong with saying you shower at least once a day, I think that makes lots of sense. That was her bare minimum, so that means if it's really stressful and she can't make it, it'd be once, and usually twice.
As if Tamar never was in a stressful position where she had to skip a shower before. You're supposed to be honest on the show.