No one, I HOPE is the same person who they were 5 years ago.

That's not the issue. You are SUPPOSE to grow and have growth.
I think the problem is... Brandy does not always HONOR who she was at points in her life, or things that happened.
She wants to RESET it like it never happened... a lot. VS just looking at it like a seamless journey, with the GOOD and BAD.
Or at least that's how it comes off.