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[FlowerBomb]

My current love kept gazing in my eyes and wore basketball shorts on the first day we hung out

He knew what he was doin



And boom, we're coming up on our anniversary

So you never know

Awww 

[Vonc2002]

OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW!
Im kinda like
and  turned off a bit tbh

I'm that type. If I'm expecting dick then that's what I want. If I want to fuck and you keep telling me know we're done.

Marg u just seem like a mess tbh


So what did u wanna do tonight




Marg:YOU!

[Vonc2002]

well marg I respect u for knowing who u are tho

[Kurama]

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Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.

But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.

Do you at the end of the day

[GLOCK]

Wow this thread makes me look like a slut








W/E

YOLO

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[GLOCK]

U are so fucking edgy ...

[Kurama]

My current love kept gazing in my eyes and wore basketball shorts on the first day we hung out

He knew what he was doin



And boom, we're coming up on our anniversary

So you never know

Awww 

Congrats

[Gilgamesh.]

OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW!
Im kinda like
and  turned off a bit tbh

!!!!

like, chill

[yummy]

s

Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.

But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.

Do you at the end of the day

Who wants to be someone's accomplishment tho?  That sounds gross

I wanna connect and have a good time...whether it results in a quick nut or a committed relationship. All these "rules" are unnecessary.

[Kurama]

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Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.

But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.

Do you at the end of the day

Who wants to be someone's accomplishment tho?  That sounds gross

I wanna connect and have a good time...whether it results in a quick nut or a committed relationship. All these "rules" are unnecessary.

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I agree, but it's a social thing. That's why we have things like slut-shaming or ridiculing people who "wife hoes".

It's hard to deviate from that way of thinking, at least i've personally struggled with it.

but I dew wanna look at something I built with another person and feel accomplished tho

[BigDawg]

I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.

also true. I wish it was that easy though.

I have learned to set the standard from the beginning. If we are just smashing then it will strictly be only that. If we are dating and the potential is there to be in a relationship then having sex so early in the game taints things imo. It can in some cases send the wrong message. Men are so fickle, most of the time even if the sex is poppin they can simply just be adding you to the roster of "homies they break off now and again".

Okay but what if,

SCENARIO:
You had a nice dinner and movie.

Get back to your place and you invited him in because you wanted to show him something you told him you had on the date that he wanted to see.

Like something y'all vibed over, like you have a special "COLLECTION"

and he was like
"OH WOW, I LOVE THOSE!"



and you invite him in after the night is over to look at your collection.
and y'all giggling and talking and mess.



then, a small silence happens and you glance over into his eyes and you noticed the color of them, and he starts looking sexier at the specific moment up close.

y'all have y'all first kiss,
then one thing lead to another...

sexual tension is heavy...

WHAT WOULD YA DO?


plz explain

Trutfully I have done the hookup on the first date thing and has proven to be uncessful. So I have been doing things differently. Definitely not a tease but I am ain't toochin my booch at the end of the night.

[BAPHOMET.]

Yes.

[Stunna Gor’]

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Honestly..... I don't know. Cuz personally, I feel like if you're rushing to have sex with someone before you even get to know them on a deeper level, you're not too interested in a relationship. And I don't like wasting time. So I guess that answered the question.

[Lazarus]

D

Honestly..... I don't know. Cuz personally, I feel like if you're rushing to have sex with someone before you even get to know them on a deeper level, you're not too interested in a relationship. And I don't like wasting time. So I guess that answered the question.

Sometimes it's not even about wanting to be in a relationship. So many people have hidden agendas to why they want to have sex with you in the first place on the first date. It's possible they could try to pass on an STD, etc. Never know what a person is thinking. It's sad tho.

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

I suck dick, thats the most i'd do.