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[GLOCK]

Does it change ur perception of them?
Does this mean there's no future for a strong relationship?

Does it make you think "they do this with everyone"?


If so.. How long should one wait?

spin off of Ifran thread .. Always wanted discuss this actually !

[Purple Moon]

Tbh one part of me thinks: "Do they do that with everyone?", but I won't get myself worked up over this right now. I'll see what the person is really about if we make it past the 5th date or so. And you can always try to see if they're still interested when the 2nd date doesn't include sex (if the 1st one already included sex).

[Opposites Attract.]

Nope.

I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.

[Kurama]

That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.

[GLOCK]

Tbh one part of me thinks: "Do they do that with everyone?", but I won't get myself worked up over this right now. I'll see what the person is really about if we make it past the 5th date or so. And you can always try to see if they're still interested when the 2nd date doesn't include sex (if the 1st one already included sex).

but what if y'all sexual chemistry is so off the charts that every time y'all see each other... Y'all MESS 

[GLOCK]

That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.

which stance bby?

[Nine]

tbh I can't really trust someone who wants to mess on the first date. I really do think "do they do this with everyone"



More power to those who do, but yeah, not for me.

[BigDawg]

I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.

[Opposites Attract.]

We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.

[Kurama]

That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.

which stance bby?

Sex on the 1st date.  It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect   

[Kurama]

We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.

You're so interesting Marg. Sexual liberation is cool tho if that's ur thing.

[charlie.]

It all depends. If there was actually a connection and you actually spent the date vibing and getting to know eachother.


If you both met at a park and talked for an hour,
spent 30 mins staring at your phones in awkward silence.

then starting making out, then giving each other head and then started fucking
then yea.
that would change perspective and I wouldn't take them serious as far as "long-term relationsip"-wise




BUT,
if y'all went on a date.
had good conversation and chemistry,
enjoyed each other's company and spent the whole day together having a successful date.

that's totally different.
if the sexual tension is there,
fuck like porn stars a BIT!



but ONLY if the sexual tension is there.
I wouldn't say every date should be a
"wanna go back to my place?" 

[Nine]

b

[yummy]

[Purple Moon]

Tbh one part of me thinks: "Do they do that with everyone?", but I won't get myself worked up over this right now. I'll see what the person is really about if we make it past the 5th date or so. And you can always try to see if they're still interested when the 2nd date doesn't include sex (if the 1st one already included sex).

but what if y'all sexual chemistry is so off the charts that every time y'all see each other... Y'all MESS 

i think thats whats gonna happen. Tbqfh. Ki