i understand the connection bewteen gay black men and white women
they are understanding
they dont come with the shame based black guilt thinking and mentality
they still see you as a strong man even if you are light on your feet and limp in your wrist
and most times are willing to compromise
and most importantly will help you blend in with societal norms with having a female on your arms and having a family
its what makes the white womuh so appealing
but its also the easy way out