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So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

I don't think I get what you're asking lol

DDdDdd

First:

Is he out of the closet?

Second:

Have you guys talked about his situation and what he's going through, what he's looking for and vice versa?

Ohhhh gotcha.. I wouldn't say he's out.. He's not going around telling people he likes e and we slept together.. They still think he's straight..

He tries to talk about some stuff with me but a lot of times I shy away from it because I don't want him to feel pressured because we're having sex..

I'm gonna stop doing that..
He just says he really likes me and he's mentioned a relationship a couple of times

if you shy away from these real conversations, you'll never truly get to know him and be able to make a sound
decision about it all. give ur self a chance to make an informed choice either way

[Glenda]

So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

I don't think I get what you're asking lol

DDdDdd

First:

Is he out of the closet?

Second:

Have you guys talked about his situation and what he's going through, what he's looking for and vice versa?

Ohhhh gotcha.. I wouldn't say he's out.. He's not going around telling people he likes e and we slept together.. They still think he's straight..

He tries to talk about some stuff with me but a lot of times I shy away from it because I don't want him to feel pressured because we're having sex..

I'm gonna stop doing that..
He just says he really likes me and he's mentioned a relationship a couple of times

if you shy away from these real conversations, you'll never truly get to know him and be able to make a sound
decision about it all. give ur self a chance to make an informed choice either way

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[RatherBe]

Yeah.. After reading some of the responses I realize that's kinda foolish of me..

That's why I said I'm gonna stop doing that.

[Aamerie.]

wait are you the person who asked what does it mean if someone doesn't text you all day

[4 fucking k]

okay so i dont remember when i made the initial thread but.. i told you guys i kinda thought that my barber liked me but i didnt wanna fuck up a good thing because hes a dope ass barber...


well we started hanging out, first with his friends a lot at like bars and sports games...


slowly but surely we started to venture off and hang out by ourselves also. whether it was right before or right after meeting up with his guy friends... the more we hung out and closer we got AS FRIENDS i noticed he became a lot more defensive for me... like no sly or overly rude jokes were to be made about me or if he felt like i would take offensive.. he would NIP it in the bud and i would be like
"you aint have to do that.. i can take a joke and if it goes too far i can handle myself." and he would be like "nah, fuck that you my homeboy, and i started bringing you around so imma make sure you comfortable." or something to that extent

so im like  "okay then!" but since he was so hell bent on using the term "homeboy, homie, brodie, etc." i chalked it up as strictly friends and i didnt wanna fuck it up because by this point he was giving me free haircut every now and again... so i was like yeah.. let me chill


but my birthday was at the end of july.. and so he like a week later he asked did i wanna go out because he was out of town the weekend of my birthday.. so i was like cool.. im thinking we were about to go meet up with his boys and drink but we pulled up to the movie theater.. and im like " its just me and you?" and hes like "yeah... i really wanna see suicide squad, you dont wanna be here or something" and i was like "no its nothing like that i was just suprised"

*we had a quick convo here about him not being ashamed to be seen in public or hang out with me as if i already didnt know*...

the movies just feels a lot more intimate for two guys that are just friends to be going..but whatev.. we go in.. he buys the tickets... i INSIST on buying the popcorn and drinks because.. yea i just do! lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*

so all is good, we are like half way through the movie... then he starts getting on his phone alot at this point.. so i think nothing of it because im really into the movie... all of a sudden i get a text saying
"you know you couldve just got one big pop corn and we coulda just shared.. what you think i got cooties or sumn?"
so im straight up looking like at this point:


and i cant help it but i go into complete flirt mode and i text him back and say "lol you probably do...idk!!"
and we both laugh a bit and just started watching the movie again..

~another twenty minutes go by and i get another text but i didnt see him take his phone out so i knew he wasnt the one texting me... so i just was like ill get to it once the movies was over..

Yall!!! he tapped me and was like... "you know your phone went off right" im thinking like "nigga, how you hear my phone on vibrate " so im like fuck it ill just check it... but ill do it fast because i was into the movie!! (i like movies ) so i check it and ts from him and it says "would you think it was weird if i asked to hold your hand?"

so on the inside im like:

but i had to be cool so on the outside im like:

and i say "ummm.. idk" and he just grabs my hand and holds it..
so now im like fuck the movie, nigga you got my attention! but really i had to play it cool.

so the movie ends and we are headed to go to the bars with his friends.. and we start having a quick convo about what happened in the movie... and hes just saying he didnt know why but he felt compelled to hold my hand and that he feels really close to me.. im not really saying much but an occasional "oh.. wow.. really...aww.. cool." because im trying to play it cool but inside im fucking losing it..
so then we start talking about what i did for my actual birthday night... because he always thinks that i have a bunch a guys that wanna be with me(hes right, but i pay them no mind) so im like "i spent my birthday night lonely as fuck i got no action!"...

so I kid you not... he looks at me like:


he immediatley picks up his phone to call his boys and made some bs excuse why we werent meeting them at the bar anymore... im like why you lie to them and say that... and he says hes changing the plans...10 mins late we pull up at his house

...AND THATS WHEN I FUCKING KNEW

long story short.. i ended up getting impaled that night.. ill spare yall the details of that, this is already long enough.

HAPPY BITHDAYS TO ME!

;

[yummy]

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I barely fleet....isn't it unsafe for your immune system?

[RatherBe]

wait are you the person who asked what does it mean if someone doesn't text you all day

n


no

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Im gonna get pounded sunday night

[Cartierline]

r u jealous?

[Gilgamesh.]

*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*

nmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,

,nbnn;n

[Gilgamesh.]

Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?

we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  he was in no hurry to get his phone back

oh he loves u, cause CH!

yeah I was like I'll just bring it back he was like.. Well if you're on the other side of town.. Just hold on to it... If you don't mind playing receptionist for a little bit...

I was like say the fuck no more.. I tore the fucking phone APART! Went thru EVERYFCKNTHING nnnnnnnnn

I love you

[Gilgamesh.]

a doo doo film.

What in the Spielbeg fuck?

im in pain

a light coating

Is it paint?

NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

varnish!

[SouravMay]

this story was great

[SouravMay]

okay.. so as far as the sex.. (im sorry if this is a lot for one night, im weirdly excited to tell yall)

we pull up at the house...
im still tryna act dumb and innocent so im like "you want me to come in or are you just running in to get something and coming right back out."

he looks at me exactly like:

so im like okay... fine!
we get in the house and hes like imma cook for you.. so im like damn tuhhnight must be my fckn NIGHT, this nigga knows how to  COOK too?!? i was wet

im sitting in the living room hes in the kitchen, im thinking im about to get some FOOD, 10 mins later he's like "come eat" seo im confused as shit like did he heat up some left overs?

this nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese
sooooo im laughing my ass off at this point.. and he like "dont laugh at me... this my special recipe.."
after i continuously laugh hes like "iight keep laughing... imma get you back, dont trip"
so we eat (the shit was actually really good... i just ate it like 5mins ago tbfh, im hooked on it)


so im tryna give him hints that we gotta go to the store so i can make sure im set for the night..
so im saying shit like "i really want some snacks!" so he knows we gotta go to the store.. eventually he catches it and we leave out.. get to the store.. and hes like "im gonna go look for -something random- for my house." im like okay.. i already know hes lying because he went in the aisle where the condoms were.. so that was just more confirmation that i wasnt tripping!... so i get the stuff i need and hurry up and check and meet him at the car..

get back home and we start playing playstation (he was surprised i knew how to play) afterwhile i got tired of playing it. (they play that shit all night... idk how) so i told him i was going to shower and asked for a shirt and shorts


this nigga replies under his breath: "you aint gon need it but okay"

so i said "what" and hes just laughing.. so i pay it and go to the bathroom... handle my business and shower..
i come out of the bathroom and hes in the bed and he looks sleep so low key im like:

so im just like well fuck it... im just gonna go to sleep... he has this huge bed so i turn off the light and i get in the bed but stay on one side.. as soon as i settled.. he put his leg on me and was like "i know yo ass aint going to sleep." me tryna be cute and innocent im like: "im not?" and he says "stop playing with me, yo" so by this time ive realized that hes completely naked but not hard... so he gets up to turn on the small light..and i see his dick for the first time... not gon lie.. it didnt look big... so im like.. well i cant turn back now.. so hes back at the bed and he starts kissing my neck asking me if i feel comfortable" i tell him yea.. he keeps going

now i look down i SWEAR to yall his dick has gone from 4inches soft to like 9inches and theres a slight curve im like:
hes looking at me now like:

so i did what any real bitch in my shoes would do... i dive in head first... start giving him head...he couldnt take it... he knew it! he kept tryna stop me but.. i kinda just took control until he kinda ran.

then the unexpected: he just took control of evrything.. i stood up, he pushed me back on the bed and pulled me by my leg to the middle of the bed (it was a huge fckn bed) and says "You ready?"

im tryna be all tough and shit so im like:

BIIIIIIITCCCHHHH big mistake!
he slid in... i didnt give fuck.. i yelled.. i know his neighbors heard me.. at first he was shushing me..but after while he was saying shit like "dont get quiet on me now, I told you i was gon get ya ass back for laughing." "Shit aint funny now huh?" shit like that... im in heaven!he couldnt figure out if he wanted to make slow strokes or fuck like we hated each other.. either way like i said im in HEAVEN..

we switched postilions like 4 or 5 time and he just keeps coming back..im thinking in my head "sooner or later you gon hafta cut this shit out, im getting sleepy! this goes on for like an hour and a half... and i get the feeling that hes tired but feels like he gotta prove something by lasting and fucking for a long time so im just like... "You tired? cuz i am. lol " and hes like yeah i actually am.. hes looking like he marched Selma.. sweat is EVERYWHERE... so we finished(figuratively and literally) and i go get back in the shower he asks can he join... im like nigga we way past that stage now, i mean why not conserve water.. i get out first since i got in before him and wait for him to get out... i ask him once he puts his shorts on... (wouldnt put a shirt on) if hes taking me home or should i call an uber..

i aint clingy and i wasnt about to be  just assuming he wanted me to spend the night.. so i was prepared to leave

so hes like.. you dont feel comfortable sleeping here or something and i tell him my resoning

him again: he literally comes over knocks my stuff out my hand and picks me up and carries me to back to bed. we cuddle for a bit but then he says.. "i dont want you to think im rude but i cant cuddle for the whole night."
im like: thank you father!!! i hate that all night cuddling shit.. nigga back up off me so i can take my ass to sleep!!

we go to sleep and like 5hrs later his alarm goes off... he has an appointment to cut somebody's hair... he tells me he only has 2 appointments and that he'll be back in like 2hrs to check on me and see if im ready to leave and to make myself at home... and then he left
yea thats it

omf there is a part 2 mess


lemme dig in!!!

[SouravMay]

AJ what did you discover on his phone?