Wth happened in here..
Just to clear up anything..
I don't usually go through phones.
Actually this was my first time doing it ever..
As I said before lol.. Because he was identifying as straight at a point... I felt the need to make sure this wasn't some game of front he was putt on on with me. We aren't in a relationship but we are strongly considering one.. And this will be my first time in a situation like this. I hear you guys talk about DL dudes and how they act homophobic but like dick on the low.. I felt for my sake that I needed to just check and make sure that this was something I can manage..
Btw I had a talk with him about how he identifies and the whole closet thing...
He said something about not really caring about what people think that he's gonna do what makes him happy regardless.. However he isn't quite comfortable with broadcasting that he's into a guy.. But if he was asked he wouldn't really deny it.. he just doesn't feel comfortable yet with voluntarily disclosing his sexual preference.. I'm okay with that, to me its understandable. He never hides me or tells me how to act. When he says he doesn't care.. I truly get that from him.