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[GLOCK]

Dating is .... well..... a mess!

It's really hard to get to know ppl
I met a guy.. just keeping it light
He's handsome but another brick wall.. and I just feel like he wants to get fucked

Like the normal conversations you have when you're getting to know someone .. we barely have

Why are men this way?

My level of interest in dwindling by the millisecond

[wizzy]

The apps have dulled the senses
People who've already had short attention spans now have none
so they have all the personality of a doorknob
until its time to mess

[GLOCK]

I'm not sure if he's an app guy
And I've never used it before either
He just seems attractive with nothing else to offer

[XXX.]

I've been in a relationship for 2 years.  I've cheated (got head & 4 play) - JUDGE ME.

But the idea of getting myself back in the dating world keeps me in my relationship.  I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love anymore.  This shit changes from week to week.

But the thought of getting to know any of these bottoms.... I ain't got the time.  99% of the time you're gonna meet dude on some sex app and I just would feel low as hell back on any of that shit.

[GLOCK]

I've been in a realtionship for 2 years.  I've cheated (got head & 4 play) - JUDGE ME.

But the idea of getting myself back in the dating world keeps me in my relationship.  I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love anymore.  This shit changes from week to week.

But the thought of getting to know any of these bottoms.... I ain't got the time.

This is how it was for me...
But we were together for 3 years... I didn't cheat but I imagined mysel doing so
Funny enough there was no one around that I liked or wanted so that helped
But the love had clearly dried up.

I've been single for almost 2 months now .. u think I'm putting too much emphasis on getting to know him?

[XXX.]

I've been in a realtionship for 2 years.  I've cheated (got head & 4 play) - JUDGE ME.

But the idea of getting myself back in the dating world keeps me in my relationship.  I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love anymore.  This shit changes from week to week.

But the thought of getting to know any of these bottoms.... I ain't got the time.

This is how it was for me...
But we were together for 3 years... I didn't cheat but I imagined mysel doing so
Funny enough there was no one around that I liked or wanted so that helped
But the love had clearly dried up.

I've been single for almost 2 months now .. u think I'm putting too much emphasis on getting to know him?

I totally understand.  The guys I've cheated on him with I would never even date.  That's the real shade.  Most times, we just want a fantasy sexually, anyway.  I've learned that sex and my relationship can definitely be seperate.  I get now how people can be fulfilled sexually outside of the relationship, but totally still need the emotional/friendship/support aspect of a relationship.  We barely have sex, but somehow we are still together fronting like this is the best situation ever.  I do honestly hope it changes. 

But as for you.... I can't really say.  I'm the type to be trying to say "I love you" after 2 months.  So, I wouldn't be the right person to ask.  It's all about how you feel.  Ain't no rules.  If your intuition is telling you he just wants to be thotted out, then you're probably right.  Just don't ignore it, and then realize you're dating some bopper 6 months in who's tossing that boochie everywhere.  I've seen it happen to one of my boys. 

Sad.

[GLOCK]

I've been in a realtionship for 2 years.  I've cheated (got head & 4 play) - JUDGE ME.

But the idea of getting myself back in the dating world keeps me in my relationship.  I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love anymore.  This shit changes from week to week.

But the thought of getting to know any of these bottoms.... I ain't got the time.

This is how it was for me...
But we were together for 3 years... I didn't cheat but I imagined mysel doing so
Funny enough there was no one around that I liked or wanted so that helped
But the love had clearly dried up.

I've been single for almost 2 months now .. u think I'm putting too much emphasis on getting to know him?

I totally understand.  The guys I've cheated on him with I would never even date.  That's the real shade.  Most times, we just want a fantasy sexually, anyway.  I've learned that sex and my relationship can definitely be seperate.  I get now how people can be fulfilled sexually outside of the relationship, but totally still need the emotional/friendship/support aspect of a relationship.  We barely have sex, but somehow we are still together fronting like this is the best situation ever.  I do honestly hope it changes. 

But as for you.... I can't really say.  I'm the type to be trying to say "I love you" after 2 months.  So, I wouldn't be the right person to ask.  It's all about how you feel.  Ain't no rules.  If your intuition is telling you he just wants to be thotted out, then you're probably right.  Just don't ignore it, and then realize you're dating some bopper 6 months in who's tossing that boochie everywhere.  I've seen it happen to one of my boys. 

Sad.

Eek!
You need to get out
This is exactly how things began to feel like for me
I had to dip!

But that's some real shit
Yeah they just wanna get fucked and if I'm wasted and in the mood I'm just gonna D em down!

[Kurama]

Apps have microwaved courtship in so many ways
Men aren't really conditioned to have meaningful dialogue, let alone with one another.
People dont really know how to communicate effective anymore.
If someone does they really have to work hard to help the other party out and that can be exhausting and people would rather explore other options instead of building with someone they like. That grass is always greener shit.

[wizzy]

Apps have microwaved courtship in so many ways
Men aren't really conditioned to have meaningful dialogue, let alone with one another.
People dont really know how to communicate effective anymore.
If someone does they really have to work hard to help the other party out and that can be exhausting and people would rather explore other options instead of building with someone they like. That grass is always greener shit.

and it Never is

[GLOCK]

Apps have microwaved courtship in so many ways
Men aren't really conditioned to have meaningful dialogue, let alone with one another.
People dont really know how to communicate effective anymore.
If someone does they really have to work hard to help the other party out and that can be exhausting and people would rather explore other options instead of building with someone they like. That grass is always greener shit.

This is so scary
Especially because 80% of the reason I dipped on my last relationship was because of his lack of communication and inability to express how he felt.. what was on his mind... and his past

Kinda fucked up that I'll prolly never find someone that really gets it

[GLOCK]

I even began questioning whether or not I was asking for too much
Creating a fantasy of sorts in my head..

[BAPHOMET.]

Apps have microwaved courtship in so many ways
Men aren't really conditioned to have meaningful dialogue, let alone with one another.
People dont really know how to communicate effective anymore.
If someone does they really have to work hard to help the other party out and that can be exhausting and people would rather explore other options instead of building with someone they like. That grass is always greener shit.

Its sad tbh.

[LOONA.]

Yeah finding a man that can communicate outside of sex is hard to find these days.

And once you find a man capable of that you need to hold on for dear life cause.......

My ex & I broke up about 2 years ago (or almost) and I've been enjoying the single life but these past few months I've been longing for some affection. I met a few guys off some apps but they all pretty much wanted one thing. Plus they all suck at communicating. They're literally just cute faces with nothing else to offer as most guys I've encountered this year are.

Dating doesn't even excite me anymore. 

       

[LOONA.]

I even began questioning whether or not I was asking for too much
Creating a fantasy of sorts in my head..

Naw, most guys our age are just the pits.       

[XXX.]

I've been in a realtionship for 2 years.  I've cheated (got head & 4 play) - JUDGE ME.

But the idea of getting myself back in the dating world keeps me in my relationship.  I love him, but I don't know if I'm in love anymore.  This shit changes from week to week.

But the thought of getting to know any of these bottoms.... I ain't got the time.

This is how it was for me...
But we were together for 3 years... I didn't cheat but I imagined mysel doing so
Funny enough there was no one around that I liked or wanted so that helped
But the love had clearly dried up.

I've been single for almost 2 months now .. u think I'm putting too much emphasis on getting to know him?

I totally understand.  The guys I've cheated on him with I would never even date.  That's the real shade.  Most times, we just want a fantasy sexually, anyway.  I've learned that sex and my relationship can definitely be seperate.  I get now how people can be fulfilled sexually outside of the relationship, but totally still need the emotional/friendship/support aspect of a relationship.  We barely have sex, but somehow we are still together fronting like this is the best situation ever.  I do honestly hope it changes. 

But as for you.... I can't really say.  I'm the type to be trying to say "I love you" after 2 months.  So, I wouldn't be the right person to ask.  It's all about how you feel.  Ain't no rules.  If your intuition is telling you he just wants to be thotted out, then you're probably right.  Just don't ignore it, and then realize you're dating some bopper 6 months in who's tossing that boochie everywhere.  I've seen it happen to one of my boys. 

Sad.

Eek!
You need to get out
This is exactly how things began to feel like for me
I had to dip!

But that's some real shit
Yeah they just wanna get fucked and if I'm wasted and in the mood I'm just gonna D em down!

What if it's so good.  You gon be stuck!