How do YOU define masculinity & femininity ?

Started by Kurama, October 14, 2016, 11:51:54 AM

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SouravMay

Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:20:50 PM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 14, 2016, 01:19:18 PM
I was actually shocked to find out as a teenager you can actually be gay and still be dumb and ignorant as shit. Always thought gays were an intellectually elevated species nnn

I appreciate you going with the flow now Malc  ^_^

I like the angle of child perceptions on gay/straight stereotypes. But grown men defining masculinity, couldn't align with that. No prob!
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wizzy

I remember a guy I know told me he was dumped because the top he was dating said he was a little too masculine for him.

I couldn't wrap my head around HOW??
NOTHING about his mannerisms made me feel like I was around a masculine guy.

Everyone's perceptions are soooo different.

SouravMay

Sadly it took my a while to figure out that blacks can also be gay. I sincerely at one point thought being gay was a white thing. That was really stupid. :(
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Kurama

Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:10:10 PM
For the non-gender binary folks...are you just as accepting when having a sexual partner?

Is a sexual preference/position governed by anything?

D.i.a.b.l.o

Care to take a gander?


Vonc2002

Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 12:49:47 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on October 14, 2016, 12:42:43 PM
In looking for a partner I don't like  masc/muscle  guys at all I prefer very gay acting type of guys

I can be friends with almost anyone though

So u associate a certain body type with masculinity? Thank you for the specifics btw.

Yes and no. There are A lot of muscle guys that are big ol bottom queens and that's a no for me too.
I like a smaller framed skinny bottom type guy who you can look at and know they are gay.
Thats interesting. So do u know why u prefer someone to be blatantly gay? Like is that a conscious thing? Can a person be this smaller framed skinny bottom type and be just an everyday guy  and u still be attracted to them? Or u need to know they're gay upon first impression for u to be into em?
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SouravMay

I just think most of the straight gorls put on a "masculine" front for society and their friends. Speaking extra deep
and slow, watching how they dress.

I love that gays shouldn't have to give a fuck about that no more.
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Vonc2002

Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 14, 2016, 01:27:55 PM
Sadly it took my a while to figure out that blacks can also be gay. I sincerely at one point thought being gay was a white thing. That was really stupid. :(
I know someone else that thought this way. He too was African now that i think about it. I  said something about Africans being gay and he was like
impossible. That's not a thing
:hmph:
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wizzy

Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 14, 2016, 01:31:05 PM
I just think most of the straight gorls put on a "masculine" front for society and their friends. Speaking extra deep
and slow, watching how they dress.

I love that gays shouldn't have to give a fuck about that no more.
I always thought they just copied what they saw
whatever came most naturally for them

'Overcompensating masculinity' seems like its picked up later on, no?

Kurama

Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 14, 2016, 01:31:05 PM
I just think most of the straight gorls put on a "masculine" front for society and their friends. Speaking extra deep
and slow, watching how they dress.

I love that gays shouldn't have to give a fuck about that no more.

Straights aren't the only people doing this. They also shouldn't have to either.

Opposites Attract.



It's unconditional, these days you know....

Kurama


Real

What if you just have a deep voice and like shirts and ties and shit? :dead:

Kurama

October 14, 2016, 01:38:06 PM #133 Last Edit: October 14, 2016, 01:40:54 PM by Kurama
Quote from: Real on October 14, 2016, 01:36:06 PM
What if you just have a deep voice and like shirts and ties and shit? :dead:

!!!!!

The voice thing, in the gay world ppl will naturally ascribe that to you being more "masc" or attempting to be. It's annoying af.

wizzy

Quote from: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 01:38:06 PM
Quote from: Real on October 14, 2016, 01:36:06 PM
What if you just have a deep voice and like shirts and ties and shit? :dead:

!!!!!

The voice thing, in the gay world ppl will natural ascribe that to you being more "masc" or attempting to be. It's annoying af.
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