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[LOONA.]

Yeah she does sound fake.

And IDK why but women in the workplace love to "compete" with gay men.       

Shit is weird. This is why I pay most of my coworkers dust. I talk to like 2 people on the regular at my job.

[KING BENTLEY.]

Yeah she does sound fake.

And IDK why but women in the workplace love to "compete" with gay men.       

Shit is weird. This is why I pay most of my coworkers dust. I talk to like 2 people on the regular at my job.

do you feel yourself come off as bougie or bitchy toward them?

They may be in an awkward place tryna decide if it's safe to talk to you or not.

[LOONA.]

I usually get told I look mean but that doesn't stop people from approaching me. I rarely just waltz up to someone and strike up conversation at work. People usually approach me.

It's only once some women find out that I'm into guys and see I get attention from other guys that the competition mess happens. Like just because I have a convo with a guy doesn't mean we're having sex or that I'm trying to compete. I don't understand women in the workplace.



       

[KING BENTLEY.]

That's true too. If they see a cute guy and men striking up conversations with him they'll secretly hate the "phagg"

It's a bitter rivalry. It's like they think you're taking something that should be theirs

[LOONA.]

Always a black woman too

No shade       

[LOONA.]

dhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhjhhhhhcc

[Monika]

so she finally talked to me....but the bitch wouldn't shut up it's like flood gates of Katrina finally opened or something. once the bitch popped she wouldn't stop.

i think it has something to do with the fact that i debuted my fall/winter look mess owt yesterday and all the gorls were raving about it in the office (literally I was getting kudos in my instant messenger before i even sat down in my chair sss "hey ! just saw u walk by! lovin that sweater!!! " )

I think she finally realized she's on the wrong team or something. She could NOT stop talking to me 

like omfg she was telling me her life story.  and also telling me stuff she asked about me to other people in the office...like bitch, u were around the office ASKING about me but couldn't talk to me? sdsd wats really good?

and she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.

this bitch really just let it RIP yesterday.

like OK i didn't like that bitchy mess u were doing but don't give me the polar opposite now. we're not besties hun

BUT, even though I was just a bit disturbed at this sudden outburst of friendliness yesterday... I'm glad she broke the ice. cuz it was ICY.

I don't like tension where I work and I definitely felt it from her. I enjoy getting along with everyone , glad we can kii kii a bit now. I can definitely tell that maybe she didn't genuinely dislike me but was just cautious about interacting with me.

Some people (not all people) really assume things about you...that u must think u all that, u must think u cute....and they put a guard up. i have a feeling she was one of those people. the "coily curls" woman @ my job admitted to having those feelings about me when she saw me. just didn't take her MONTHS to figure owt that I'm cool peoples.

[leftout]

Black women stay insecure bout somethin

[Rxxf]

The people at your job have low self esteem as fuck

[Real]

Black women stay insecure bout somethin

I wish yall would let this silly idea go.

[Rxxf]

I usually get told I look mean but that doesn't stop people from approaching me. I rarely just waltz up to someone and strike up conversation at work. People usually approach me.

It's only once some women find out that I'm into guys and see I get attention from other guys that the competition mess happens. Like just because I have a convo with a guy doesn't mean we're having sex or that I'm trying to compete. I don't understand women in the workplace.



       

I find it odd when women discuss how fit your body is, etc.

Like how can you compare a male's physicality to yours?

[Rxxf]

This woman is every fucking thing.
My goodness.

[leftout]

Black women stay insecure bout somethin

I wish yall would let this silly idea go.

it's the truth. I'm not saying us black women are the only ones with insecurities (every person has at least some) but a LOT of black women are def the worst at hiding them

Nigga

[leftout]

Stan Ralf

[LOONA.]

I usually get told I look mean but that doesn't stop people from approaching me. I rarely just waltz up to someone and strike up conversation at work. People usually approach me.

It's only once some women find out that I'm into guys and see I get attention from other guys that the competition mess happens. Like just because I have a convo with a guy doesn't mean we're having sex or that I'm trying to compete. I don't understand women in the workplace.



       

I find it odd when women discuss how fit your body is, etc.

Like how can you compare a male's physicality to yours?

Well some men are "shapely" so it's not all that uncommon for women to compare and ask for workout tip.