Do you think Black women blame gay men for them being single?

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Opposites Attract.

Quote from: TEXASbama on November 22, 2016, 09:55:28 PM
They sound dumb af .. Like there are hundreds of other straight black men out there why are you concerned with the ones who don't want you ?

I think the issue becomes that most normal gay men are successful and in certain positions of power that women desire from a man. That's the only thing I can think of.


It's unconditional, these days you know....

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Kaeli.

Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

Kinda agrees

I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.


GRAND

Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

Kinda agrees

I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.
I dunno luv

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Quote from: TAE! on November 22, 2016, 10:04:33 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

I can agree with your last sentence, but it's not all gay men who are trying to compete just like all black women aren't mad at gay men. Definitely a good number of them though.

If they're mad it's towards the DL gays.


Opposites Attract.

Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

Kinda agrees

I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.

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Uhm hello Gay men are stealing their men lolz


It's unconditional, these days you know....

GRAND

But it's kinda sad

A lot of black girls I know will ask me "is he gay? :gorlonfire: " in reference to a guy they're interested in or dating ddsssss

Like are there really THAT many gay black men out there?

Kaeli.


4 fucking k

Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
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Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

Kinda agrees

I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.

!!! Don't know what these faggs are on :everythingok: all the gay personalities on YouTube and IG have a strong black women following. Oh mad at us! These bitches are literally supporting y'all :kii:



GRAND

Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:15:49 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
d

Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

Kinda agrees

I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.

!!! Don't know what these faggs are on :everythingok: all the gay personalities on YouTube and IG have a strong black women following. Oh mad at us! These bitches are literally supporting y'all :kii:
and they're all big entertaining FAGS

The moment it's some black man with a degree and career that isn't in entertainment or beauty, the guy is criminalized  :dead: :dead:

4 fucking k

Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 10:18:18 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:15:49 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on November 22, 2016, 10:09:04 PM
Quote from: imani on November 22, 2016, 10:00:51 PM
d

Y'all need to get real. These black girls are pressed about Susan and them getting wifed up by these black men. They could careless about the faggs. At most they don't find it normal due to religious reasons but they're not competing with them. ;ddd just being honest. If anything it's the other way around. Gay men try to compete with them.

Kinda agrees

I feel like Black women are more annoyed by women of other races (specifically white) "stealing" the black men from them. Never really hear black women talk about gays negatively except for the whole "they wanna be me!!" Thing. I don't think black women find gays a threat when it comes to them stealing their man.

!!! Don't know what these faggs are on :everythingok: all the gay personalities on YouTube and IG have a strong black women following. Oh mad at us! These bitches are literally supporting y'all :kii:
and they're all big entertaining FAGS

The moment it's some black man with a degree and career that isn't in entertainment or beauty, the guy is criminalized  :dead: :dead:

I honestly never see it. :dead: If anything a black man with a degree and career marrying lil white Mary makes their blood BOIL :kii: not a gay black man with a degree :kii:


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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 22, 2016, 10:15:06 PM
But it's kinda sad

A lot of black girls I know will ask me "is he gay? :gorlonfire: " in reference to a guy they're interested in or dating ddsssss

Like are there really THAT many gay black men out there?

Paranoia more than anything. A lot of these black girls are pressed to find a man


Kurama

I do think generally though, both sides exaggerate what the other is doing.

I think some women definitely get bothered by the whole gay men & white women taking all the good men.

I do think some gay men feel like its a competition with black women, especially if they feel like Black women generally direct hate towards them.

I think it boils down to the pressure of women still feeling like they have to compete for a man's affection and gay men buy into that too, especially the ones who are more "feminine" oriented. The gender binary fucks shit up.