Quote from: Kurama on December 28, 2016, 02:04:25 PM
Was watching this vidya of queen
she kinda lashed black men for their "preference" of dating outside of Blk women.
How do you all view preferences? How do you know when it's either or?
Are preferences inherently discriminatory ?
Do preferences become more discriminatory sexually, inter-personally, socially etc. and vise versa?

I dunno
I mean ... I can see it... it's deeply imbedded in some black men
The part I don't get about it is
You can't MAKE nobody want you

And black women have to realize that
That'd be like us sitting on here all day crying and begging Nick to date blacks.
Black women always tryna MAKE somebody see them as beautiful and worth something
Girl go be worth something to yourself first and love the ones who actually DO want you.
Black women are notorious for passing up good things to be with a bad man or get into toxic situations.
Be the most fucked up ones and wanna blame it on everything else
"Oh my hair is nappy and beautiful!!!"Um .... ok sure. But why are you shouting at me?
"Black men need to stop dating white women"Um .... so you really want somebody that don't want you in the first place?
"Gay men are the reason I'm in the position I am in life"Um .... you wouldn't have a good man anyway because you let Tyrone lay up on your couch and ruin your credit. Deal with it.