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[Kurama]

Was watching this vidya of queen

she kinda lashed black men for their "preference" of dating outside of Blk women.

How do you all view preferences? How do you know when it's either or?

Are preferences inherently discriminatory ?

Do preferences become more discriminatory sexually, inter-personally, socially etc. and vise versa?

[D.I.E.G.O.]

I don't think it has to be either or. Some people's preference is to be prejudiced and discriminatory. I find it problematic when ANYone of ANY race claims that they only date a specific group of people.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

preference is never discriminatory because there are always exceptions to preference discrimination leaves no room

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)

Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)

[D.I.E.G.O.]

I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)

Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)

No.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)

Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)

No.

yes its that simple dear

[Kurama]

So can having a preference be protective tactic rather than a discriminatory one?

[Kurama]

I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)

Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)

No.

yes its that simple dear

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

So can having a preference be protective tactic rather than a discriminatory one?

I dont think so whatever reason the preference is there it can still lead to discrinination

say like last dude without a car u deallt with was a user and totaled your car

so now u say i dont date guys without a car now

well you have established that rule to prevent some mess like before but at the same time
this guy without the car could be great lol

[D.I.E.G.O.]

Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.

nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different

[D.I.E.G.O.]

Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.

nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different

n because you can't control race or attraction. You're not born with carrots in your soup or with a car in your driveway. You're not this dense.

[XXX.]

She must post on LipstickAlley.  I remember when Taron told me it gives him "single bitter moms". nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn  So tired of this conversation.

Black women get so enraged when Allison & Becky snag a DayQuan.  DayQuan still cheating & fucking them over too.  But no really, you don't have to date your race.  And it's not self hatred if you have a preference - even if that preference is not inclusive of everyone.

Anywho, love and date who you want.  Just make sure it's legal & don't get all judgy wudgy with what other people are doing.

I find single people are the most passionate about this shit. 

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.

nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different

n because you can't control race or attraction. You're not born with carrots in your soup or with a car in your driveway. You're not this dense.

So because you arent necessarily wired to like someone of a certain race that means you couldnt possibly be attracted to and date someone of that race

thats discrimination

[D.I.E.G.O.]

Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.

nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different

n because you can't control race or attraction. You're not born with carrots in your soup or with a car in your driveway. You're not this dense.

So because you are necessarily wired to like someone of a certain race that means you couldnt possibly be attracted to and date someone of that race

thats discrimination

Never said that.  And you've missed the point yet again. God bless you, babe.