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and wtf was up with that odd ass "your parents don't accept you cause ur gay but they still luv ya" argument earlier in the thread

Silly af

it's so insulting but I get it

People don't want to lose their loved ones and if you're an unsure Fag who also believes something is wrong with yourself, you'd accept that shit

[LOONA.]

and wtf was up with that odd ass "your parents don't accept you cause ur gay but they still luv ya" argument earlier in the thread

Silly af

it's so insulting but I get it

People don't want to lose their loved ones and if you're an unsure Fag who also believes something is wrong with yourself, you'd accept that shit

Society has these gurs twisted up.

Internalized homophobia is scary.   

[Aamerie.]

Yall and these generalizations

!!!!

Yall and these specifications

yall should be glad someone is trying to specify and show that not all Christians are the same

omg we ought to be grateful that you're behaving like a decent human being??

not talking about my behavior, I'm talking about the large majority of Christians that tell you they love you and mean it even if they don't like what you do in the bedroom. Ppl are saying it's not real and just sugarcoated but that's not true, and I gave reasons why

Its completely possible  . I'm legit laughing at the irony. I guess the gors are a bit closed minded themselves and only preach open mindedness when clawing their way out of a victimization bag.

[Real]

Yall and these generalizations

!!!!

Yall and these specifications

yall should be glad someone is trying to specify and show that not all Christians are the same

omg we ought to be grateful that you're behaving like a decent human being??

not talking about my behavior, I'm talking about the large majority of Christians that tell you they love you and mean it even if they don't like what you do in the bedroom. Ppl are saying it's not real and just sugarcoated but that's not true, and I gave reasons why

Its completely possible  . I'm legit laughing at the irony. I guess the gors are a bit closed minded themselves and only preach open mindedness when clawing their way out of a victimization bag.

eek

[Aamerie.]

What page was it where the gor asked me if we're all homophobic if we cringe with disdain at obnoxious nasty flaming fags who make us all look bad? Because the answer is yes gor. If all it takes is a bit of disdain, a sliver of judgement, and a dollup of prejudice, the answer is yes. And like I said Ive seen almost every fag perched in here talking about homophobia turn their noses up at a dramatic ass flamboyant fag. Yall homophobic asses have lots of nerve.

[Kurama]

Stereotypes had nothing to do with the point

That's just a common thing racist say, 'you're not like the others lol'

The same way some homoohobe would say "I don't agree with who you are as a human being, but I love you anyway because I pity you or some weird shit that I can't explain"

It's disgusting. I'd hate to have a relationship with someone who told me they didn't agree with who I was.

Cant relate to ya'll. In my experience there have been people I've "come out" to, people with whom Ive had lengthy relationships with who may not get why I do what I do, and disagree yes probably from a religious standpoint but I'm very sure they arent homophobes in any form. One in particular took interest in just wanting to learn more about that part of me. The worst they do is misunderstand. That is enough for me to find truth in the original post. I'm acknowledging that it's possible because Ive experienced it. You all are claiming it's impossible because you're cynical and accept blanket statements.

Sounds like you've had various reactions when you did decide to come out to people. Not sure where this "yall" thing is coming from, none of us have really shared our coming out experiences in the thread for you to disassociate your experiences from everyone elses.

Also, it really just seems like we all have different definitions of "acceptance" or "love". Acceptance or love is unconditional imo. It's not something that has fine print attached to it. To accept someone is to fully be comfortable and receptive of whatever it is being offered.

To say "I don't agree with the way you exist but I love you" isn't acceptance...it's TOLERANCE. That's something drastically different and Its unfortunate that some of you seem to have settled for this or believe it's what genuine acceptance looks like.

For you "racism vs homop'" folks,
I thought it was pretty obvious why the parallels between racism and homophobia were brought up again. Outside of it being another example of disenfranchising an entire group of people and stripping them of their humanity; religious indoctrination has been the primary tool to enforce and reinforce both.

Religion was used to justify:
Killing millions across the globe
To loot, pillage, and colonize others land
To ENSLAVE your great great grandparents
To RAPE your ancestors & grandparents
To create laws that marginalize your people


Get my point? The KKK is a religious terrorist group btw. So if you find yourself in here grappling with why these parallels are being discussed today, you might wanna lay off the keyboard and go read up on some things. Seems like a few of you don't even know your own religious doctrine. Or maybe you pick in choose which parts you like and don't (like the rest of your people) which is the whole fuckin point of what we're talking about but mkay.

[Aamerie.]

Who Is good at pulling receipts. I refuse.

[Kurama]

and wtf was up with that odd ass "your parents don't accept you cause ur gay but they still luv ya" argument earlier in the thread

Silly af

it's so insulting but I get it

People don't want to lose their loved ones and if you're an unsure Fag who also believes something is wrong with yourself, you'd accept that shit

Can't be insulted by asinine shit tbh.

[LOONA.]

What page was it where the gor asked me if we're all homophobic if we cringe with disdain at obnoxious nasty flaming fags who make us all look bad? Because the answer is yes gor. If all it takes is a bit of disdain, a sliver of judgement, and a dollup of prejudice, the answer is yes. And like I said Ive seen almost every fag perched in here talking about homophobia turn their noses up at a dramatic ass flamboyant fag. Yall homophobic asses have lots of nerve.

Go find the fucking receipts.     

[LOONA.]

As man times as I've argued Vonc down about him not wanting to befriend a flamboyant/feminine fag.

Girl scoot     

[Kurama]

What page was it where the gor asked me if we're all homophobic if we cringe with disdain at obnoxious nasty flaming fags who make us all look bad? Because the answer is yes gor. If all it takes is a bit of disdain, a sliver of judgement, and a dollup of prejudice, the answer is yes. And like I said Ive seen almost every fag perched in here talking about homophobia turn their noses up at a dramatic ass flamboyant fag. Yall homophobic asses have lots of nerve.

Im assuming im a part of that "almost every".

Cause im usually vehemently debating internal homophobic statements too

[GRAND]

What page was it where the gor asked me if we're all homophobic if we cringe with disdain at obnoxious nasty flaming fags who make us all look bad? Because the answer is yes gor. If all it takes is a bit of disdain, a sliver of judgement, and a dollup of prejudice, the answer is yes. And like I said Ive seen almost every fag perched in here talking about homophobia turn their noses up at a dramatic ass flamboyant fag. Yall homophobic asses have lots of nerve.

That was me not a 'y'all'

Not sure why you're even saying any of this because you'll never see me saying I don't approve of some faggotry

Is this an attempt to group everyone because you know what you're saying makes little sense?

Bottom line: They don't use

[GRAND]

And don't you have some weird hatred towards trans girls

v

Please. Spare me the homophobia accusations.

[yummy]

[LOONA.]

Stereotypes had nothing to do with the point

That's just a common thing racist say, 'you're not like the others lol'

The same way some homoohobe would say "I don't agree with who you are as a human being, but I love you anyway because I pity you or some weird shit that I can't explain"

It's disgusting. I'd hate to have a relationship with someone who told me they didn't agree with who I was.

Cant relate to ya'll. In my experience there have been people I've "come out" to, people with whom Ive had lengthy relationships with who may not get why I do what I do, and disagree yes probably from a religious standpoint but I'm very sure they arent homophobes in any form. One in particular took interest in just wanting to learn more about that part of me. The worst they do is misunderstand. That is enough for me to find truth in the original post. I'm acknowledging that it's possible because Ive experienced it. You all are claiming it's impossible because you're cynical and accept blanket statements.

To say "I don't agree with the way you exist but I love you" isn't acceptance...it's TOLERANCE. That's something drastically different and Its unfortunate that some of you seem to have settled for this or believe it's what genuine acceptance looks like.

!!!!

But lengthy relationships! Forming pacts!

Like I work and interact with people everyday that disgust me but I'm obviously gonna keep it cute. That is called tolerating their shit.

How these gurs trying to defend people that tolerate them at best is weird as fck to me.