Margy you know I luv you. I think you do have a right to chime in and express things you don't like. I mean I do it all the time lolz. I also think people have a right to defend themselves when they think they're being attacked or condescended.
I also think there have been times where that doesn't seem as consistent like Glock said. You know how this site operates, if someone says something in opposition to someones views, its gonna me mess. Maybe conveying your distaste in a different way might make things less messy, especially if you really don't want to mess.