Quote from: colors of the genocide. on February 18, 2017, 12:09:49 PM
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on February 18, 2017, 12:00:23 PM
Quote from: colors of the genocide. on February 18, 2017, 11:56:21 AM
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on February 18, 2017, 11:53:28 AM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on February 18, 2017, 11:50:31 AM
Wow Bent got dismantled in here.

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you girls really think you can just throw on matching demin fits, head to glamour shots and VOILA .... family mode! 
You seem to say this with the belief that good parenting has a specific uniform.
twinzy?

the intent was to imply that you guys are overlooking the well being of the child, just to advocate their right to have a child.
I feel like alot of mothers are unfit as well. We live in a society where ppl just think it's cute to plop a kid in any situation and call it a day.
And from what I read, I may be wrong, they're only engaged, not married. Why do ppl put kids through the ups and downs of their relationships. This couple will be broken up in 2 years tops.
sorry, It just is what it is 
Fair enough.
However, many relationships, especially those at the level of engagement, are maintained with an optimistic hope and intent of it lasting forever.
This means it's logical to include your significant other in things that will continue to bond you as a familial unit -- including hanging out together and taking pictures with the kids.
You're jumping to your own conclusions in regards to potential longevity of their relationship, which is fine, but I'd be careful of accusing others of irresponsibility and recklessness when it is an engaged couple we're discussing -- not people that just met one another off of Jack'd 5 minutes ago.
If every gay relationship in your eyes is clearly destined to last no longer than two years, I have to ask -- do you see a finish line with a significant other in your future? Or a succession of short term relationships that are ultimately meaningless?
now you know I gotta stop you there twinzy, I didn't say every ghey relationship

and I see your point, I really do. and hey if I'm wrong and they stay together for a lifetime, I'll take my eggs.
but the statistics these days speak quite loud, ghey or str8, ppl are divorcing and moving on fast. I'm speaking for all relationships adding children to an unstable environment.
but to answer your last question, yea I want it to last forever, I grew up in a stable home, and I want my kids to have that too.