In a relationship, how often do you have sex?

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GLOCK

Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:40:34 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
i miss my ex so much


Zsbbs
Talk to him then
:cheerup:
its a long story but really not deep
we have been talkin ...
finally spoke on the phone for the first time in 8 months.. and saw each other that same night..
just talked!
low' disappointed that i shut him owt of my life for that long.. and never looked back!

im so vicious..

Navyman

Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:40:05 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:39:23 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:36:50 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:34:16 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:23:40 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:10:07 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:07:03 PM
tonk' how long have yall been together?

like 3 months.
thats a bit early for the random slowing down
but it will happen.
yall still sound like yall have a healthy sex relationship
Yeah that's why I'm trying not to trip, but just was wondering if it was something else that could be going on.
nah he's has probably just gotten comfortable..
there will be a time where yall will prolly only do it once..

schedules conflict and u begin to look for something deeper in ur relationship..
just be ready for it.. maybe speak to him about it
talking about stuff >>>>
silence makes things a lot worse
Yup! I agree that's why we had our 1st falling out because I was laying my insecurities at his feet(unknowningly at first) and expecting him to fix it or get, because this is really my 1st relationship with a guy. And I hear so many stories about the cheating, diseases and all type of stuff that freaks me out and I'm not trying to get caught up like that.
yall fell out because u kept things to yourself? and just let them build up?

Let them build up, and would pretty much ignore his calls and texts, go out with friends for an entire weekend party and chill and blow off our plans we made,etc...(long story) and he didn't know why until I told him why I did it and how I felt. And he said he felt I never put him 1st, but fact is I'm just scared because this is all so new to me.

Navyman

Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:42:18 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:40:34 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
i miss my ex so much


Zsbbs
Talk to him then
:cheerup:
its a long story but really not deep
we have been talkin ...
finally spoke on the phone for the first time in 8 months.. and saw each other that same night..
just talked!
low' disappointed that i shut him owt of my life for that long.. and never looked back!

im so vicious..

Man! I was heading down the same path, I was ready to be done and just shut him out but I knew that wouldn't be right until he gives me a reason for sure, can't keep running forever. Where y'all good together? Did you feel anything seeing him again?

GLOCK

Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:43:35 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:40:05 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:39:23 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:36:50 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:34:16 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:23:40 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:10:07 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:07:03 PM
tonk' how long have yall been together?

like 3 months.
thats a bit early for the random slowing down
but it will happen.
yall still sound like yall have a healthy sex relationship
Yeah that's why I'm trying not to trip, but just was wondering if it was something else that could be going on.
nah he's has probably just gotten comfortable..
there will be a time where yall will prolly only do it once..

schedules conflict and u begin to look for something deeper in ur relationship..
just be ready for it.. maybe speak to him about it
talking about stuff >>>>
silence makes things a lot worse
Yup! I agree that's why we had our 1st falling out because I was laying my insecurities at his feet(unknowningly at first) and expecting him to fix it or get, because this is really my 1st relationship with a guy. And I hear so many stories about the cheating, diseases and all type of stuff that freaks me out and I'm not trying to get caught up like that.
yall fell out because u kept things to yourself? and just let them build up?

Let them build up, and would pretty much ignore his calls and texts, go out with friends for an entire weekend party and chill and blow off our plans we made,etc...(long story) and he didn't know why until I told him why I did it and how I felt. And he said he felt I never put him 1st, but fact is I'm just scared because this is all so new to me.
oh no 'ka..
dont sabotage a good thing!
talk it out and work it out..
sometimes some air is needed but dont abandon ur relationship or shut someone out..
thats almost pushing him towards another fag tbh

communication is just everything.. ive learned that over the years..
give him all of u and expect the same in return.
i just dont believe in guarding urself when u love someone. or care for them strongly

GLOCK

Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:45:34 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:42:18 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:40:34 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
i miss my ex so much


Zsbbs
Talk to him then
:cheerup:
its a long story but really not deep
we have been talkin ...
finally spoke on the phone for the first time in 8 months.. and saw each other that same night..
just talked!
low' disappointed that i shut him owt of my life for that long.. and never looked back!

im so vicious..

Man! I was heading down the same path, I was ready to be done and just shut him out but I knew that wouldn't be right until he gives me a reason for sure, can't keep running forever. Where y'all good together? Did you feel anything seeing him again?
we were really good
but i got a bit bored and tired of trying to get him unravel his many layers..
and not to mention his ex kept popping up in the early stages of our rela'

we were together for 3 years.. but it just got to a space where i didnt see any 'rowth..
but yeah..i felt everything when i saw him and so did he..
he came back after he left.. but i was sleep and my phone was on silent.. says he stayed outside my door for 20 mins hoping i answered.. but i had turned my phone on silent because we were having a genuine conversation and i wanted to give him all my att'...
but i forgot to turn the ringer on before i jumped in the bed...

:'(


Navyman

Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:48:44 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:43:35 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:40:05 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:39:23 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:36:50 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:34:16 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:23:40 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:10:07 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:07:03 PM
tonk' how long have yall been together?

like 3 months.
thats a bit early for the random slowing down
but it will happen.
yall still sound like yall have a healthy sex relationship
Yeah that's why I'm trying not to trip, but just was wondering if it was something else that could be going on.
nah he's has probably just gotten comfortable..
there will be a time where yall will prolly only do it once..

schedules conflict and u begin to look for something deeper in ur relationship..
just be ready for it.. maybe speak to him about it
talking about stuff >>>>
silence makes things a lot worse
Yup! I agree that's why we had our 1st falling out because I was laying my insecurities at his feet(unknowningly at first) and expecting him to fix it or get, because this is really my 1st relationship with a guy. And I hear so many stories about the cheating, diseases and all type of stuff that freaks me out and I'm not trying to get caught up like that.
yall fell out because u kept things to yourself? and just let them build up?

Let them build up, and would pretty much ignore his calls and texts, go out with friends for an entire weekend party and chill and blow off our plans we made,etc...(long story) and he didn't know why until I told him why I did it and how I felt. And he said he felt I never put him 1st, but fact is I'm just scared because this is all so new to me.
oh no 'ka..
dont sabotage a good thing!
talk it out and work it out..
sometimes some air is needed but dont abandon ur relationship or shut someone out..
thats almost pushing him towards another fag tbh

communication is just everything.. ive learned that over the years..
give him all of u and expect the same in return.
i just dont believe in guarding urself when u love someone. or care for them strongly
Trust me I'm learning and growing. I realize I didn't really want him to push him away and looked at myself. And just said fuck it and go all in and pray for the best.

b7


KING BENTLEY.


H.#.G.*.Z

GLOCK

Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:56:34 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:48:44 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:43:35 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:40:05 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:39:23 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:36:50 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:34:16 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:23:40 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:10:07 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:07:03 PM
tonk' how long have yall been together?

like 3 months.
thats a bit early for the random slowing down
but it will happen.
yall still sound like yall have a healthy sex relationship
Yeah that's why I'm trying not to trip, but just was wondering if it was something else that could be going on.
nah he's has probably just gotten comfortable..
there will be a time where yall will prolly only do it once..

schedules conflict and u begin to look for something deeper in ur relationship..
just be ready for it.. maybe speak to him about it
talking about stuff >>>>
silence makes things a lot worse
Yup! I agree that's why we had our 1st falling out because I was laying my insecurities at his feet(unknowningly at first) and expecting him to fix it or get, because this is really my 1st relationship with a guy. And I hear so many stories about the cheating, diseases and all type of stuff that freaks me out and I'm not trying to get caught up like that.
yall fell out because u kept things to yourself? and just let them build up?

Let them build up, and would pretty much ignore his calls and texts, go out with friends for an entire weekend party and chill and blow off our plans we made,etc...(long story) and he didn't know why until I told him why I did it and how I felt. And he said he felt I never put him 1st, but fact is I'm just scared because this is all so new to me.
oh no 'ka..
dont sabotage a good thing!
talk it out and work it out..
sometimes some air is needed but dont abandon ur relationship or shut someone out..
thats almost pushing him towards another fag tbh

communication is just everything.. ive learned that over the years..
give him all of u and expect the same in return.
i just dont believe in guarding urself when u love someone. or care for them strongly
Trust me I'm learning and growing. I realize I didn't really want him to push him away and looked at myself. And just said fuck it and go all in and pray for the best.
yes bby.
enjoy urself and thangs!.. and express ur self.. you two will go far with patience

GRAND

April 24, 2017, 04:59:04 PM #58 Last Edit: April 24, 2017, 04:59:12 PM by LORD GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL
It's been like 5-6 times a week for almost 2 years now :dead: :dead:

Navyman

Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:52:39 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:45:34 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:42:18 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on April 24, 2017, 04:40:34 PM
Quote from: GLO' on April 24, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
i miss my ex so much


Zsbbs
Talk to him then
:cheerup:
its a long story but really not deep
we have been talkin ...
finally spoke on the phone for the first time in 8 months.. and saw each other that same night..
just talked!
low' disappointed that i shut him owt of my life for that long.. and never looked back!

im so vicious..

Man! I was heading down the same path, I was ready to be done and just shut him out but I knew that wouldn't be right until he gives me a reason for sure, can't keep running forever. Where y'all good together? Did you feel anything seeing him again?
we were really good
but i got a bit bored and tired of trying to get him unravel his many layers..
and not to mention his ex kept popping up in the early stages of our rela'

we were together for 3 years.. but it just got to a space where i didnt see any 'rowth..
but yeah..i felt everything when i saw him and so did he..
he came back after he left.. but i was sleep and my phone was on silent.. says he stayed outside my door for 20 mins hoping i answered.. but i had turned my phone on silent because we were having a genuine conversation and i wanted to give him all my att'...
but i forgot to turn the ringer on before i jumped in the bed...

:'(
Aw damn that's dope, maybe he has grown now and y'all can give it another shot. That's good y'all lasted so long, I was always told gay relationship only lasts about 3 months so that's another reason why I'm tripping. :plzstop:

Ugh, A mess.