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[GLOCK]

Let's chat.



Giving advice, them making mistakes, the ppl they choose to date..their style, their weight, appearance etc

Just got into some mess with one about their weight .

Unh unh. If I'm a friend imma keep it 100.
Another one has relationship issues and I make sure they're given some sound advice

i agree
Why call someone ur friend if u can't be upfront with them even if it will hurt a bit

[GLOCK]

Brutal honesty in a friendship >
I just think people get a bit too comfortable in telling others what type of friend to be and that really pisses me off

[Vonc2002]

But why are y'all going on about brutal honesty? That's not the question u asked. U asked are u hard on your friends.  Being honest with ur friends is not the same as u imposing your views on their lives on them.  I don't think anyone in here meant that they arent honest with their friends but im
definitely  not bombarding someone with my thoughts, especially about things as supeficial and shallow as how they dress and weight

[LOONA.]

It's one thing to give honest advice when ASKED, but I'm not bout to sit up here n judge n lecture grown ass people. And I'm not looking for the same in return. We're not kids anymore... if I feel that strongly against things my friends are doing, it might just be time to move on and find a new circle.

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I had to do one boy like this.
   

[Lazarus]

No. Not at all. 

[Vonc2002]

It's one thing to give honest advice when ASKED, but I'm not bout to sit up here n judge n lecture grown ass people. And I'm not looking for the same in return. We're not kids anymore... if I feel that strongly against things my friends are doing, it might just be time to move on and find a new circle.

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I had to do one boy like this.
   

And yea, i meant to agree with this too. If i feel tha need to constantly chastize u then yea we need to discontinue our friendship. I dont wanna be a nag just like im sure someone doesnt want someone nagging them.  If we differ to that degree then we're probably not suited to be friendly. Ive definitely done this too. Not saying that you're wrong and im right but if our views and outlooks are constantly conflicting (especially on certain things), then imma let u do you

[GRAND]

I would never comment on a friends weight to their face.

If they're fat, they KNOW they're fat and they're the only person who can do something about it.

Now, if they were dangerously obese, yeah, I'd have to sit down and talk to them about their "health", most definitely.

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They were fat when we met

WhI am I? God?' Lmao

[🦚]

All my friends are a 10 and most of us have similar styles and interests. I tend to keep my opinion to myself unless I'm asked and they only ask when they want the unfiltered truth.
I'm always 50/50 when it comes to whether or not to chime in on their dating life and if I do I try to see the mess from both sides.

[Kaeli.]

When it comes to dating I don't say shit about their relationships unless I catch some tea on

[Stunna Gor’]

I would never comment on a friends weight to their face.

If they're fat, they KNOW they're fat and they're the only person who can do something about it.

Now, if they were dangerously obese, yeah, I'd have to sit down and talk to them about their "health", most definitely.

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They were fat when we met

WhI am I? God?' Lmao

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And I have another friend that smokes cigarettes. I don't support it and he know that.... But damnit, when I met him, he was SMOKING.

[Stunna Gor’]

It's one thing to give honest advice when ASKED, but I'm not bout to sit up here n judge n lecture grown ass people. And I'm not looking for the same in return. We're not kids anymore... if I feel that strongly against things my friends are doing, it might just be time to move on and find a new circle.

I forgot to tell you that you were TRASH the last time I saw you 

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am pretty sure I didn't forget to tell you though.

[GRAND]

I would never comment on a friends weight to their face.

If they're fat, they KNOW they're fat and they're the only person who can do something about it.

Now, if they were dangerously obese, yeah, I'd have to sit down and talk to them about their "health", most definitely.

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They were fat when we met

WhI am I? God?' Lmao

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And I have another friend that smokes cigarettes. I don't support it and he know that.... But damnit, when I met him, he was SMOKING.

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I don't feel like I should/want to change a friend

They're perfect the way they are, as my friend

If I have to change them, we shouldn't be friends

I honestly don't understand people who try to change their friends

Seems like control issues or something

[b7]

Just like anything, there should be a balance. If ur always nagging and being negative toward them, why should they even listen? They'll take you seriously when you usually uplift and inspire them

Sometimes if they need to snap out of it, tough love is imperative.

[sawayama]

Kii

[RatherBe]

there's a time and place for everything, i think knowing how to decipher when its time to be a listening ear or just get them together is what makes you a good friend sometimes.