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He cute?
I thought he was when I first saw him.
Nice build, tall, very dark nice skin, big arms definitely my type.
and I remember when I dropped something outside the office, he ran to pick it up for me. I thought he was really sweet and I could tell he liked me.
but he's so immature. once I got to know him it really turned me off.
like, you're older than me. an we're in the office. grow up a bit. and learn to differentiate the time and place for what you're trying to give.
Maybe it is a coping mechanism to deal with the emotions of potentially being something other than straight. Maybe he just likes you and doesnt know how to express it.
I have a feeling he's never really talked to a man before. He's just so reckless and sloppy with it. No sort of finesse with his approach. I dunno, I'm kinda done trying to figure him out.
I talked to my best friend about it and she just ended up blaming me.
she said it's the way I dress freely, I have longer hair, carry myself in a certain way.....and that I may be confusing him. which is pretty much in line with what you're saying.....he just doesn't know what to do.
I don't think he realizes how blunt he is with it though....my coworkers are noticing how he always picks on me in a flirtatious manner.
they be giggling but be side eyeing him.
cuz he'll play with me and then turn around and talk about his ex girlfriends and mess.
He wants to mess love...he just dont know how to say it

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I think a part of me likes him too. But I don't wanna admit it cuz he's so damn silly and reckless. I think if I didn't like him and was really uncomfortable I would have gone to HR by now. He always makes fun of how I simply roll my eyes whenever he talks mess to me.
i try to give him unbothered "leave me alone" mess.

But i think he sees thru it. cuz he keeps on pressing it.


I just wish he was more smooth. that's all.
but part of me wants to give him a chance. i need to start talking to more guys, not just one at a time.