Quote from: Khoi Zan on June 20, 2017, 08:50:20 PM
And it depends on who you're trying to date.
I think a lot of older gay men go for younger guys -- of course if you go after a younger person , they're gonna see you as ... well .. older. I've seen plenty of older guys who still try to fit in with the younger ones. Dressing the same, acting the same...with the mug of a 45 year old. It just isn't gonna work out. They'll know you're not one of them lol.
I think it's all about what you make it. There's definitely some nice men out there. I believe in ultimately attracting what you put out. Or, simply going home empty handed because you're knocking on the wrong doors.
I agree with you on that. Alot of older gay men wanna behave, dress and look young. It just doesn't look right. So many gay men are afraid to age.
And yes, you do attract whatever vibe you put out. I'm a firm believer in that.
