Would you go to a gay club alone?

Started by Inject My Lips, June 23, 2017, 01:57:07 AM

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I read that going alone is best if you want to meet new people or potential boo thangs.  Something about guys being less scared to approach since they won't have an audience if you reject them etc.  Still that sounds sooo scary, like you would have to be a natural born social butterfly to pull it off imo.  Have you ever gone to the club alone?

CHOKE

I don't go to clubs to meet men I go to dance

I love the club

The lights, the outfits, the rush of getting ready and not knowing what the night will bring

Ack!

When I first started going out I thought I needed a group of people but all they wanted to do was perch on the wall and couldn't dance




Inject My Lips

Quote from: Cho-Ku on June 23, 2017, 02:10:19 AM
I don't go to clubs to meet men I go to dance

I love the club

The lights, the outfits, the rush of getting ready and not knowing what the night will bring

Ack!

When I first started going out I thought I needed a group of people but all they wanted to do was perch on the wall and couldn't dance

I guess its easier if you're a regular and know a bunch of people already.  I went for the first time last week and it seemed like everyone was in a clique.  I would have been miserable if I went alone and had to dance by myself :stressed:

Stunna Gor’

June 23, 2017, 07:45:57 AM #3 Last Edit: June 23, 2017, 07:47:05 AM by Trey
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I mean.... I did it when I first moved to NYC. That's how I made my first set of friends. It was a day/rooftop party though. Idk if I could do an actual "night" club by myself. That's kinda awkward. Day parties are more social and a great way to meet people (with some form of substance).

Opposites Attract.

Yes and it's the best experience ever. Go somewhere where you know no one and bitch it's like you a whole new bitch. I used to not like going places by myself but I do now.


It's unconditional, these days you know....

Stunna Gor’

Quote from: Cho-Ku on June 23, 2017, 02:10:19 AM
I don't go to clubs to meet men I go to dance

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Yea.... And I think that's why I often prefer just going to straight clubs. I always say what I'm looking for, I'm not gonna find in the damn club. I'm just trying to dance and get drunk like MelMel.

:udontlookok:

Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

I hardly go out to gay bars/clubs these days. I've gone to gay clubs alone many times but not to meet anyone. I go to enjoy myself and have a good time.
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Sinpool

I'd probably go now that I've gotten used to being more social.

But I gotta move from the HELL im in now.


GLOCK

Quote from: Kordei Jauregui. on June 23, 2017, 07:51:37 AM
Yes and it's the best experience ever. Go somewhere where you know no one and bitch it's like you a whole new bitch. I used to not like going places by myself but I do now.
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Inject My Lips


Opposites Attract.

Quote from: Same Ol' G on June 23, 2017, 09:55:30 AM
Quote from: Kordei Jauregui. on June 23, 2017, 07:51:37 AM
Yes and it's the best experience ever. Go somewhere where you know no one and bitch it's like you a whole new bitch. I used to not like going places by myself but I do now.
ddddddddddddddddddddddd
dssssssssssssdssd


It's unconditional, these days you know....

L0NZ.

Quote from: AlmondEyes on June 23, 2017, 01:57:07 AM
I read that going alone is best if you want to meet new people or potential boo thangs.  Something about guys being less scared to approach since they won't have an audience if you reject them etc.  Still that sounds sooo scary, like you would have to be a natural born social butterfly to pull it off imo.  Have you ever gone to the club alone?

Im the furthest thing from a natural born social butterfly, but my very first visit to one was alone  :plzstop: . I had fun, too.


BrokenHeartsHeal


BrokenHeartsHeal

but I went to a gay sports bar by myself once, it was a much older crowd and I was just perched watching the game ignoring anybody that was trying to hit or look at me. Wasn't my type of crowd but that was like a step 1 for me to get more comfortable.

A damn club... idk I'd probably be a the bar the whole time.

RatherBe