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[Scott.]

I'll apologize if I was wrong. And sometimes my mouth is the reason for a lot of my issues.

But sometimes it's hard to accept an apology from those hurt me tho

[Vonc2002]

Im almost never wrong so i don't apologize much but i have no problem issuing an apology if it's warranted

[Nine]

Apologizing is a mixed bag for me tbh. I hate admitting I'm wrong, but I'll do it if it needs to be done.

[Kurama]

Yeah I agree completely. Luckily me and my mom have gotten to a place where she can admit being wrong or apologize for things, still takes some convincing though.


I think a few folks hit the nail on the head for me. People see apologies or admitting fault as being weak. Same as they do emotions. It's about power also. If someone can admit that they're wrong, they simultaneously admit that the other person was right (giving them the upper hand).

I really wish people didn't think like this, but I think that hinders folks from owning their shit too.

[Demm_]

Yea i think alot of people "move on" but im not like that at all. I can't have an issue with someone and gloss over it.  As a matter of fact, i cant even hardly talk to someone if i have an issue with them because I can't speak around things or ignore a situation if i feel some kinda way.  So if we had some sorta problem, i probably won't speak until its squared away

!!!! Let's get the mess out

[Kurama]

Oh and I only really apologize to folks that are reciprocal or mature enough to not see everything as a wrong vs right type of thing.

There are some things I would like to apologize for to my former best friend but he's obstinate  and he will never want to admit the harm he caused our relationship

[GLOCK]

it is sorta disgusting how hard it is for people to apologize

[FlowerBomb]

Oh and I only really apologize to folks that are reciprocal or mature enough to not see everything as a wrong vs right type of thing.

There are some things I would like to apologize for to my former best friend but he's obstinate  and he will never want to admit the harm he caused our relationship

!!!!
Apologies are a two way street, I hate it when people use it throw it back in your face or use it to score points.

[FlowerBomb]

it is sorta disgusting how hard it is for people to apologize

yh very

[Vonc2002]

Nah, i don't apologize based on other people. That whole apologies are for you thing is very true. U can't let other people dictate how u carry urself. If i feel bad for  sumn i did, I'll apologize. U don't apologize with the hopes to get one in return. I'll own what i did and then i can move on from it and feel satisfied

[sawayama]

My mother just moved on for the most part. She apologizes sometimes, but never for the shit I want her to.

[sawayama]

Then I again I don't really apologize to her much but I will to other people.

[AIDS]

I think it's safe to bet that at least 50 -60% of apologies are fake  bbbbbb

r u a statistician

[Vonc2002]

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