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Am mean .... quite simply... I feel like you did what you did. Period!

Shouldn't have regrets.
You did what you felt was needed.
Bbys, in life don't get into the regret mode, questioning your mess. It happened! Lolz
if anything just reflect and know they aren't the right ppl to really entertain anyway.
Only thing I would've done differently is confront those ppl while they were cackling, otherwise it may have looked messy to her on your end.
Listen, If ANYBODY comes to me and repeats every single bad thing someone says about me, I'm automatically skeptical because they clearly SAT and listened to the entirety of the lashings!
So In those situations now as I'm getting old, I just call the mess out in front of EVERYBODY!
Now if leaving it alone isn't in your playbook.
Take control! You not weak boy! Own that workplace!
Gather everyone, the dyke too, in that damn break room and begin the session bby!
"Hey Sarah sis .... why did you say Anne was a nasty pig shaped bull dyke? And Jacob you agreed... why?"
I don't play that ignore child games mess.
BLOW up the spot panther. Don't let ANYBODY take away your comfort in any situation.