Are any of you actually against dating white men?

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Quote from: Happily Unhappy on August 02, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
I've dated men and women of different races. I will say this, I know a lot of white men who do understand the struggle of POC and speak out on it daily and even marched with BLM, called out cops for their bullshit, etc. There are white men out there who are definitely on our side when it comes to issues and so forth. A lot of them were Bernie supporters and actually wish Obama was still president. One of my friends wanted to do a petition to get Obama to serve a third term.
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MAY

Quote from: Kurama on August 02, 2017, 03:42:19 PM
Quote from: Glenda on August 02, 2017, 02:36:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 02, 2017, 02:32:37 PM
I personally don't think I could.

Why not?

Not really attracted to them and I'd probably be thinking about if im being festishized or if the person even empathizes with my people and our plight.

This is what crosses my mind too.

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MAY

Quote from: Happily Unhappy on August 02, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
I've dated men and women of different races. I will say this, I know a lot of white men who do understand the struggle of POC and speak out on it daily and even marched with BLM, called out cops for their bullshit, etc. There are white men out there who are definitely on our side when it comes to issues and so forth. A lot of them were Bernie supporters and actually wish Obama was still president. One of my friends wanted to do a petition to get Obama to serve a third term.

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Well there you have it!


Vonc2002

Quote from: Happily Unhappy on August 02, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
I've dated men and women of different races. I will say this, I know a lot of white men who do understand the struggle of POC and speak out on it daily and even marched with BLM, called out cops for their bullshit, etc. There are white men out there who are definitely on our side when it comes to issues and so forth. A lot of them were Bernie supporters and actually wish Obama was still president. One of my friends wanted to do a petition to get Obama to serve a third term.
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Rxxf

I never dated a white guy.
Can't say I'm against dating any race.
Religion is where things get tricky, though.
BRANDY

Glenda

Quote from: Happily Unhappy on August 02, 2017, 04:37:10 PM
I've dated men and women of different races. I will say this, I know a lot of white men who do understand the struggle of POC and speak out on it daily and even marched with BLM, called out cops for their bullshit, etc. There are white men out there who are definitely on our side when it comes to issues and so forth. A lot of them were Bernie supporters and actually wish Obama was still president. One of my friends wanted to do a petition to get Obama to serve a third term.

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MAY

I hate when White people bring up voting for Obama to prove they aren't racist.

Eternal Bell

August 02, 2017, 04:46:16 PM #70 Last Edit: August 02, 2017, 04:46:29 PM by Banjee Gorl Tinker
Quote from: ᚱʌ𐤋ϝ on August 02, 2017, 04:44:36 PM

Religion is where things get tricky, though.


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this is a real tricky thing for me


XXX.

I would never date a white guy.

And it's not even that some of them aren't cute.  But white men (and white women) mostly fetishize black men.  And on top of that, I just don't think they can ever genuinely connect with us or understand our struggles. 

It's a no for me.

Kurama

Quote from: GUCCI. on August 02, 2017, 04:49:22 PM
I would never date a white guy.

And it's not even that some of them aren't cute.  But white men (and white women) mostly fetishize black men.  And on top of that, I just don't think they can ever genuinely connect with us or understand our struggles. 

It's a no for me.

:indiaarie:

MAY

I will say this. I'm attracted to White men, and will continue to have sex with them,
but as far as a serious relationship I think I can only be with a man of color.

I need to be with someone that can truly relate to what it's like to be a POC in today's world.

My disdain for Caucasoids grows daily with all the mess going on, especially the blatant racism in the gay community.
At this point I wonder if any of them truly see Black people as equals or if they just tolerate us in order to not look like the bad guy.

That's not to say all White guys are racists, but imo if you see the mess going down and you turn a blind eye to it, then you're just as bad.

I don't care how many Black friends you have or how many Black men you've dated.

Glenda

Love is love to me tbh, but I understand where you all are coming from.