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[ya rock muh world.]

This is so true. I used to make this mistake with men, but not anymore.

Once I started choosing myself over them it's been so much easier.

I think a lot of us are guilty of making that mistake one time or another - it's just so easy to do it.

[MAY]

Regarding the whole chase thing...

I know a man loves the thrill of the chase and all when it comes to women, but what about 2 men?

How does it work in that dynamic if both like to be the chaser?

I'm not even gonna lie, I enjoy being chased.

[MAY]

I'm clingy and too sensitive and emotional to just let someone go so easily.

I'm really surprised to hear that about you. Your vibe gives me the complete opposite.

But I know what you mean. I can be the same way, but I'm learning to change that.

[ya rock muh world.]

She is PREACHING!

My revolving door is closed.  And I've honestly been a much happier person once I chose myself.

oh-tay?! tuh.

BITCH i almost threw this book owt my window that night.

"do u understand? "

sis wanted to make sure the gorls ABSORBED the mess thoroughly

I think the biggest lesson in the context of what she's saying is that you also have to know when to walk away.  It's not always, "Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

n

Everything and everybody ain't for you. 

And once you realize your own worth, tolerance and value, no one else can have control over your emotions.  And you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Rid them toxins out ya life!

!!!!

Like May said, it's about putting yourself first.

And I agree that knowing your worth is important to. It's not about being "high maintenance", it's about knowing what you deserve.

[MAY]

"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen

[Navyman]

I had to learn this lesson this year, along with many others.

[ya rock muh world.]

Regarding the whole chase thing...

I know a man loves the thrill of the chase and all when it comes to women, but what about 2 men?

How does it work in that dynamic if both like to be the chaser?

I'm not even gonna lie, I enjoy being chased.

I think being "chased" can be so many things.

It's not always about some man literally hunting you down with bow and arrow - but to me a chase is simply showing interest.  Like she said in the video - making it known that you are interested and not allowing anything to get in your way while being reasonable about your approach and adjusting it to the situation and environment.

[ya rock muh world.]

I needed this

BITCH when I tell u this shit is bookmarked in my Chrome mess.

I recommend everyone do the same. It's such a simple fucking message but it's TRUE. If a nigga wanna be with u - he gon do what he gotta do to make it happen. If a friend wants the friendship they'll try to mend it. and if no effort is made its safe to assume no fucks are given.

BITCH i played this shit so many times.

!!!

It really is a simple concept but we get so caught up in the emotion and everything surrounding it when the signs are THERE.

Someone will make effort if they want.

And I'm screaming at her pointing to her rock

!!!!!!!

And the mess she said about men is so true - a man loves the thrill of the chase. Gay, bisexual, straight, doesn't matter. So if he ain't chasing you and you're standing right there come get meh! If your feelings need to be hurt, let them be hurt but keep it fucking moving.

But it's beautiful to see when you put it to the test and he comes through. I swear every person in the world needs to see this video - I think we are ALL guilty of forgetting this concept sometimes. Friendships or relationships, whatever.

When she said men are NATURAL hunters I kinda got CHILLS.

the way she's speaking in this so passionate. dfffdfdfddfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdff

This is video is definitely a friendly fucking reminder

!!!!!!!!

[ya rock muh world.]

bitch i FELT this shit.

[XXX.]

She is PREACHING!

My revolving door is closed.  And I've honestly been a much happier person once I chose myself.

oh-tay?! tuh.

BITCH i almost threw this book owt my window that night.

"do u understand? "

sis wanted to make sure the gorls ABSORBED the mess thoroughly

I think the biggest lesson in the context of what she's saying is that you also have to know when to walk away.  It's not always, "Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

n

Everything and everybody ain't for you. 

And once you realize your own worth, tolerance and value, no one else can have control over your emotions.  And you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Rid them toxins out ya life!

!!!!

Like May said, it's about putting yourself first.

And I agree that knowing your worth is important to. It's not about being "high maintenance", it's about knowing what you deserve.

What do I deserve?

[ya rock muh world.]

"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen

nnnnnsfdfdfdf

I think it depends on the man.

But if someone's just purposely playing GAMES tryna be on some "Two Can Play That Game" Vivica Fox mess , they deserve it.

[ya rock muh world.]

She is PREACHING!

My revolving door is closed.  And I've honestly been a much happier person once I chose myself.

oh-tay?! tuh.

BITCH i almost threw this book owt my window that night.

"do u understand? "

sis wanted to make sure the gorls ABSORBED the mess thoroughly

I think the biggest lesson in the context of what she's saying is that you also have to know when to walk away.  It's not always, "Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

n

Everything and everybody ain't for you. 

And once you realize your own worth, tolerance and value, no one else can have control over your emotions.  And you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Rid them toxins out ya life!

!!!!

Like May said, it's about putting yourself first.

And I agree that knowing your worth is important to. It's not about being "high maintenance", it's about knowing what you deserve.

What do I deserve?

lots o luv

lemme just

oof

ack!

[XXX.]

"Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

So many fags try this and end up looking dumb as fuck when it doesn't happen

!!!!

I told one of my girls that for years.  If you're done, BE DONE!  Don't tell him bye, because you're banking on him chasing you.

SMH.

But I try not to judge.  I know how it is to be emotional and think all that shit is the most important thing.  It can physically make you sick if you let it.  Been there.  Done that.

But I honestly noticed the energy I attracted started shifting A LOT when I decided to start choosing me.  And you almost notice a shift right away.  It's the weirdest thing.  When you treat yourself like you are the best, you attract people that treat you the best.  And the people already in your life reciprocate the same energy.  That law of attraction stuff is real!

I feel bad for people losing their shit over people who don't give a damn about them or settling for marriages or relationships where that's the case.  People really out here believing they can't do better.

[MAY]

I'm clingy and too sensitive and emotional to just let someone go so easily.

I'm really surprised to hear that about you. Your vibe gives me the complete opposite.

But I know what you mean. I can be the same way, but I'm learning to change that.

Ur not the only one who says this.



I'm hard as a rock on the outside. I don't like letting ppl see me sweat but on the inside I'm a big, mushy, bi-poloar MESS.

BITCH!!!!!

That is soooo me! My motto is to never let them see me sweat.

I can be in fuckin SHAMBLES, but I will keep a smirk on my face and play it totally cool,
until I'm alone and throw on that sad/breakup playlist. Then I'm ALL in my feelings.

[XXX.]

She is PREACHING!

My revolving door is closed.  And I've honestly been a much happier person once I chose myself.

oh-tay?! tuh.

BITCH i almost threw this book owt my window that night.

"do u understand? "

sis wanted to make sure the gorls ABSORBED the mess thoroughly

I think the biggest lesson in the context of what she's saying is that you also have to know when to walk away.  It's not always, "Let me say BYE! in hopes that they chase me. Hehe!"

n

Everything and everybody ain't for you. 

And once you realize your own worth, tolerance and value, no one else can have control over your emotions.  And you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Rid them toxins out ya life!

!!!!

Like May said, it's about putting yourself first.

And I agree that knowing your worth is important to. It's not about being "high maintenance", it's about knowing what you deserve.

What do I deserve?

lots o luv

lemme just

oof

ack!

ACK!

Bitch, wait till you get that nude painting your man painted of me!

C'MHERE YOU!