Almost 3/4 of the gay community are turned off by feminine men, new survey finds

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MAY

I think it's sexy when a masculine guy isn't afraid to queen out a bit every now & then.

It just means he doesn't take himself too seriously, and I find that attractive.

ya rock muh world.

It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.

What you think of yourself matters most.



Young

Quote from: M??D?? on November 09, 2017, 05:28:25 PM
I think it's sexy when a masculine guy isn't afraid to queen out a bit every now & then.

It just means he doesn't take himself too seriously, and I find that attractive.


Purple Moon

Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

Like you said yourself, you're not macho but also not fem as fuck. I think it's pretty balanced with you. You come off as someone who is comfortable in his skin.


Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

SouravMay

Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.

What you think of yourself matters most.

I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
B7

ya rock muh world.

Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:32:28 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.

What you think of yourself matters most.

I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
How do you view yourself, Malc?

Do you think you're masculine, feminine, in betweenish...


SouravMay

Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:31:56 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

Like you said yourself, you're not macho but also not fem as fuck. I think it's pretty balanced with you.

Yeah MOST gays, hell most men are like that. Maybe African-Americans have different views on what's masculine/feminine.
B7

MAY

Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

You definitely have a bit of ZEST about you, no shade.

Like, if I didn't know you and met you I'd be able to tell you're gay right away, BUT you're also from Europe. A lot of times straight men from Europe possess qualities that Americans would consider "gay".

MAY


Purple Moon

Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:34:29 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on November 09, 2017, 05:31:56 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:25:58 PM
http://www.brandysource.net/index.php?topic=45396.0

Most people I meet are like me. This is how I act. Would you guys say I am fem? If so then yeah most are fem. idk i never identified as femme or feminine, but never claimed macho monster either

But yh if I am fem, then most guys I dated are fem.

Like you said yourself, you're not macho but also not fem as fuck. I think it's pretty balanced with you.

Yeah MOST gays, hell most men are like that. Maybe African-Americans have different views on what's masculine/feminine.

Yup a healthy balance is great. I can't stand overly masculine guys (no matter the sexual orientation), who you can tell are putting on a show.
Must be a purple moon, feel like one of those nights...

SouravMay

Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:33:22 PM
Quote from: MACK on November 09, 2017, 05:32:28 PM
Quote from: cover me in snow. on November 09, 2017, 05:28:39 PM
It's subjective, Malcolm. If your interactions in here haven't already made that painfully obvious, I don't know what to say.

What you think of yourself matters most.

I don't follow. I am just asking for opinions. It is not offensive to me. I mean that is everybody's prerogative to view me how they view me.
How do you view yourself, Malc?

Do you think you're masculine, feminine, in betweenish...

I think people could read/detect that I am gay, because I am bubbly. I don't think I have womanly behaviour and I never was viewed it like that. I don't think I give feminine energy. I am a male. idk it is hard to characterize yourself, hence me asking. I can see people calling me feminine though. I can see that too.

B7

ya rock muh world.



KING BENTLEY.

I mean this is actually really understandable

we're gay because we grew up liking MEN in the masculine sense, from what we saw growing up

when I was young it was masculine men that I fantasized about...

H.#.G.*.Z